girlfriends.
i never really thought about this before...but i realized, boys and girls cannot stay JUST best friends.
two things will inevitability happen:
1. one or the other may develop feelings.
or
2. one or the other has a significant other.
and that is so true. the past like five or six years of my life, i've developed some amazing friendships, but with boys. i love them. NOT in love with them, but i love them. they're all great guys, and then i think, mmm i have like what? SIX girl friends. just six. that's so weird and not even a GROUP of them, like just random ones.
i know, boys really do make better friends. girls are so dramatic while boys usually are chill...although, the more i've observed, i've found some boys to be way more girly than a guy should be and that's just sorta..weird? and honestly, what girl is NOT dramatic? i know every girl likes to think they're so chill and blah blah blah, but i'm gonna cut it dry for you. EVERY girl is dramatic. sensitive. emotional. and whatever. it's just IN us, so accept it. and if you're a boy and thinking, "no way. so -so isn't like that." that's only because YOU are NOT dating them. and if you're a girl and thinking..."i am SO not a drama queen." that's because you're in DENIAL.
anyway, point being, girls need to have girl friends. a ladies' night out in the town to just be girls. a cry fest when they've broken up with their boyfriend for the third time. a sleepover to talk about boys and how much we hate/love them. makeup and salon days to relax from stressful days of work and school. get together dinners to catch up on each other's lives. shopping days!
and a guy friend said this to me once, "i think it's sad that girls cant be friends...it just shows they cant get along with their OWN kind."
so if you're a girl and reading this, i encourage you to make friends with girls. join a small group. go to a girls' night out. and dont talk about each other behind each other's backs. that's seriously SO messed up. okay, i'm done.
have a good night.
two things will inevitability happen:
1. one or the other may develop feelings.
or
2. one or the other has a significant other.
and that is so true. the past like five or six years of my life, i've developed some amazing friendships, but with boys. i love them. NOT in love with them, but i love them. they're all great guys, and then i think, mmm i have like what? SIX girl friends. just six. that's so weird and not even a GROUP of them, like just random ones.
i know, boys really do make better friends. girls are so dramatic while boys usually are chill...although, the more i've observed, i've found some boys to be way more girly than a guy should be and that's just sorta..weird? and honestly, what girl is NOT dramatic? i know every girl likes to think they're so chill and blah blah blah, but i'm gonna cut it dry for you. EVERY girl is dramatic. sensitive. emotional. and whatever. it's just IN us, so accept it. and if you're a boy and thinking, "no way. so -so isn't like that." that's only because YOU are NOT dating them. and if you're a girl and thinking..."i am SO not a drama queen." that's because you're in DENIAL.
anyway, point being, girls need to have girl friends. a ladies' night out in the town to just be girls. a cry fest when they've broken up with their boyfriend for the third time. a sleepover to talk about boys and how much we hate/love them. makeup and salon days to relax from stressful days of work and school. get together dinners to catch up on each other's lives. shopping days!
and a guy friend said this to me once, "i think it's sad that girls cant be friends...it just shows they cant get along with their OWN kind."
so if you're a girl and reading this, i encourage you to make friends with girls. join a small group. go to a girls' night out. and dont talk about each other behind each other's backs. that's seriously SO messed up. okay, i'm done.
have a good night.