you think you are helping her by telling her what to do.. your not. and dont beg her to get over him. all relationships have their ups and downs. you just have to deal with it. its a give and take cycle and people get mad or hurt eachother but thats love. what is love if it doesnt hurt? Love: the sharing of two souls through the good and the bad, thickness and thin..! not to be mean but u dont have the right to say what you are saying and asking of her. ur her friend. be one dont be a mom and dad. she already has one. be there for her to wipe her tears when she crys and be there to jump up and down with her when shes happy. you need to just be there. if she truly does not go good with him she will decide it on her own. Nobody can be forced to do soemthing. You think you are helping her by saying"no no no, he's bad for you, you can do better than him, he treats you bad, he makes you sad..." it doesnt work like that. She needs to decide on her own. If you push her to do something YOU want she will only rebel on purpose and never discover her own feelings because you are pushing her more towards him with all your commands and begging. My advice to you... just be a friend. Be there for her and show u care. Whatever makes her happy should make you happy. Its not in your place to tell her what to do and who to love... you just cant help who you love. All you will do is push her away or stress her out because she knows she wants to be with him but doesnt want to hurt you as a friend or disreguard your comments. She listens to what you say...she just chooses to follow her OWN heart... not yours....
I'm only speaking from my observations. I don't like to see Tiffany hurt. It dissapoints me to see her dissapointed with the situation. I love Tiffany to pieces. I know I'm not the only one thinking like this, so you know that there is more reason behind my thought pattern.
Anonymous person, if you'd like to take this up with me online, my screen name is dorkybandkid. Thanks.
Thank you for clarifying that. However, I have an opinion, in which I'm entitled to. I'm only giving her my advice. If she chooses to take it or not, is her choice.
You are not "voicing your opinion" or "giving advice". Sorry but last time I checked, "Please don't go back to him, please dont fall for him. Do the right thing... dont go back to him etc, was orders and commands not voicing ones opinion. yes you are entitled to state how you feel but you are NOT entitled to order her to do something she may not want to do.
I'm just sad to see Tiffany so dissapointed with her situation with Kyle. I don't like to see her depressed. I love that girl to pieces. I'm sorry if I came across as "ordering" her; it was not meant in that sense. Like I said, Tiffany can take whatever I have said and use it how she wishes, if she wishes to use it at all.
I'm sorry, but when I hear Tiffany ask a smart and sensible question, and I hear Kyle sigh in disgust and say, "Oh my gosh! She's so stupid!", that doesn't tell me, or anyone else who witnessed it that he treats her in any fashion that might be considered pleasant. I wouldn't want that for myself, so why would I want it for anyone else?
haha dont worry kel i was just yankin ya chain!!! haha i wondered how long it would be until u asked who it was.... haha thats how bored i am... sorry! hahahaha. dont worry you are totally entitle to your opinion..;) ahaha luv ya bye
Hey! I was really sad there for a minute! I was thinking, "Oh man... I don't want to sit next to Tori in chemistry anymore.. I don't want Kristy to be mad. This is just like when we were in elementary school again, and she treated me like shit! aah!!"
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Anonymous person, if you'd like to take this up with me online, my screen name is dorkybandkid. Thanks.
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Don't be a loser. Don't post anonymously.
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I'm sorry, but when I hear Tiffany ask a smart and sensible question, and I hear Kyle sigh in disgust and say, "Oh my gosh! She's so stupid!", that doesn't tell me, or anyone else who witnessed it that he treats her in any fashion that might be considered pleasant. I wouldn't want that for myself, so why would I want it for anyone else?
Thanks for not being anonymous. :)
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That was a dirty trick!
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i means a lot to know i have ppl that DO care
i love you
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