Return of the Return of Asshole of the Day 11/2
I cannot believe there is a Part 3 to this.
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Our dear Victor from the Facebook marriage proposal debacle responded to my message. Even though my message said this:
Leave me alone. I'm sorry you're so desperate but I already told you you're repugnant.
Don't write to me. I am not being unclear.
So first he sends me this:
I know you dont like me anymore Julie (lol) and that its not because i don't have a good nature. I perceive that my earlier approach has not been anything but unwelcome but i give you my word that from this moment on i'll be a different person. Please take me back
Okay. Seriously. He thinks I'm desperate for him, NEED him, am lonely and crying my eyes out every night because no man exists in my life to comfort me and treat me like a woman, and he believes my soulless life is only partially soldiering forward because I have the Asexual Cause to hollowly cling to. And yet HE IS SENDING ME REPEATED MESSAGES BEGGING FOR MY ATTENTION.
I decided one more fun e-mail might be a hoot to send. Not because I actually thought he would listen, understand, or respect it, but because I declared in the e-mail that I would not be saying anything else to him and I was in the mood to make it very clear that he was not charming, not unique, not interesting, and not welcome in my life.
I did not like you in any way in the first place and I cannot "take you back" because I never "took" you in the first place.
Do not write to me. You keep writing to me even though I told you over and over again that I do not want you to write to me. You're very good at repeatedly ignoring everything I say. You have never said a single thing that suggested you're a good person. You have never said a single thing that didn't either make me laugh or make me feel disgusted. You are not worth anything to me and there is nothing you can do about it.
So stop harassing me. Your word means nothing. Especially since I said "Don't write to me. I am not being unclear" and you wrote to me anyway. You keep proving, through the act of writing to me, that you don't care at all about what I want.
You blew it. Deal with it. Cry about it at night if you have to, but get over it, and stop obsessing over a girl who doesn't like you, never liked you, and thinks you're disgusting.
You can beg all you want, but it would be better for both of us if you'd just stop embarrassing yourself. You've already got it in your head that I'm going to crawl to you and beg for your attention after I fulfill some laughable prediction you made up about my inevitable upcoming dating extravaganza. You already think you've got it all figured out. So why don't you just go fixate on your very silly fantasy and wait for my supposed destiny to come for me, and in the meantime, leave me alone?
I will not answer your messages again. Please disappear.
And yes, he replied to this.
With an e-mail containing subject line "Please do not reply."
PLEASE DO NOT REPLY.
HE SAID TO ME.
Really? It took this dude THIS LONG to get to "I didn't want you anyway, bitch"?
It's pretty common for men who come onto me in such a ham-fisted and awkward way while thinking they are God's gift to women to react to rejection with temper tantrums. But now he thinks he needs to instruct me not to reply to him? When I already told him I would not be replying to him no matter how much he begged me?
I will wait for my laughable prediction to come to pass because it soon will. Don't write me after if you don't feel like it. Bye for now
All right, Victor. Victor Syntyche Edmonds, as you refer to yourself on Facebook (where you first contacted me with your nastiness). Victor, if ever you Google yourself, and you find this, feel free to keep checking my professional site's about me page. Refresh it several times a day if you want to. See "when" that second paragraph beginning with "I'm thirty-five years old, not interested in dating or marriage, and not planning to have children" changes to match your fantasy. I believe you'll find, even many years to come, that the only part of that that changes is the age. I'm curious what old Victor thinks is "soon."
I'll say again, I never claimed I would never date, have sex with, or marry anyone; I think it's not really practical for me to put roadblocks on myself for what I have the capacity to want or feel. But since I've never wanted to date, have sex with, or marry anyone, I think it makes the most sense to refer to it that way in my orientation and use it to describe myself. And I don't expect it to change. It's pretty funny that you expect it to, though, and are willing to make truly ridiculous, condescending comments to say so.
In the meantime, does it surprise you to see how many people have seen your communications and laughed because your unwarranted self-importance and patriarchal mindset and sad attempt to look wise have struck other people as self-evidently ridiculous?
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Our dear Victor from the Facebook marriage proposal debacle responded to my message. Even though my message said this:
Leave me alone. I'm sorry you're so desperate but I already told you you're repugnant.
Don't write to me. I am not being unclear.
So first he sends me this:
I know you dont like me anymore Julie (lol) and that its not because i don't have a good nature. I perceive that my earlier approach has not been anything but unwelcome but i give you my word that from this moment on i'll be a different person. Please take me back
Okay. Seriously. He thinks I'm desperate for him, NEED him, am lonely and crying my eyes out every night because no man exists in my life to comfort me and treat me like a woman, and he believes my soulless life is only partially soldiering forward because I have the Asexual Cause to hollowly cling to. And yet HE IS SENDING ME REPEATED MESSAGES BEGGING FOR MY ATTENTION.
I decided one more fun e-mail might be a hoot to send. Not because I actually thought he would listen, understand, or respect it, but because I declared in the e-mail that I would not be saying anything else to him and I was in the mood to make it very clear that he was not charming, not unique, not interesting, and not welcome in my life.
I did not like you in any way in the first place and I cannot "take you back" because I never "took" you in the first place.
Do not write to me. You keep writing to me even though I told you over and over again that I do not want you to write to me. You're very good at repeatedly ignoring everything I say. You have never said a single thing that suggested you're a good person. You have never said a single thing that didn't either make me laugh or make me feel disgusted. You are not worth anything to me and there is nothing you can do about it.
So stop harassing me. Your word means nothing. Especially since I said "Don't write to me. I am not being unclear" and you wrote to me anyway. You keep proving, through the act of writing to me, that you don't care at all about what I want.
You blew it. Deal with it. Cry about it at night if you have to, but get over it, and stop obsessing over a girl who doesn't like you, never liked you, and thinks you're disgusting.
You can beg all you want, but it would be better for both of us if you'd just stop embarrassing yourself. You've already got it in your head that I'm going to crawl to you and beg for your attention after I fulfill some laughable prediction you made up about my inevitable upcoming dating extravaganza. You already think you've got it all figured out. So why don't you just go fixate on your very silly fantasy and wait for my supposed destiny to come for me, and in the meantime, leave me alone?
I will not answer your messages again. Please disappear.
And yes, he replied to this.
With an e-mail containing subject line "Please do not reply."
PLEASE DO NOT REPLY.
HE SAID TO ME.
Really? It took this dude THIS LONG to get to "I didn't want you anyway, bitch"?
It's pretty common for men who come onto me in such a ham-fisted and awkward way while thinking they are God's gift to women to react to rejection with temper tantrums. But now he thinks he needs to instruct me not to reply to him? When I already told him I would not be replying to him no matter how much he begged me?
I will wait for my laughable prediction to come to pass because it soon will. Don't write me after if you don't feel like it. Bye for now
All right, Victor. Victor Syntyche Edmonds, as you refer to yourself on Facebook (where you first contacted me with your nastiness). Victor, if ever you Google yourself, and you find this, feel free to keep checking my professional site's about me page. Refresh it several times a day if you want to. See "when" that second paragraph beginning with "I'm thirty-five years old, not interested in dating or marriage, and not planning to have children" changes to match your fantasy. I believe you'll find, even many years to come, that the only part of that that changes is the age. I'm curious what old Victor thinks is "soon."
I'll say again, I never claimed I would never date, have sex with, or marry anyone; I think it's not really practical for me to put roadblocks on myself for what I have the capacity to want or feel. But since I've never wanted to date, have sex with, or marry anyone, I think it makes the most sense to refer to it that way in my orientation and use it to describe myself. And I don't expect it to change. It's pretty funny that you expect it to, though, and are willing to make truly ridiculous, condescending comments to say so.
In the meantime, does it surprise you to see how many people have seen your communications and laughed because your unwarranted self-importance and patriarchal mindset and sad attempt to look wise have struck other people as self-evidently ridiculous?