friends cut.
My flist was getting out of control and I don't have nearly as much time to spend on LJ as I did when I was in high school. (For example-- I'm never on AIM, GTalk, or Yahoo now.)
So, friends cut.
If you want to know why you were defriended, it's probably for one or more of these reasons:
1. We've drifted apart/we didn't really talk to each other much to start with.
2. Either you or I friended each other thinking we were one way and we turned out differently. Normally, I wouldn't have any problem with this but I don't want to waste your time with my posts and I'm sure you don't want someone who doesn't feel very connected to you reading your entries.
3. We only have fandom in common. That's something I really don't care much about at the moment (I haven't written legit fic in over two years) which also means we don't have much in common (see #1). There's nothing wrong with having fandoms in common, but if that's all we've got... then, well, I don't think there's much to build on.
4. Your journal is dead or inactive. Or, quite the opposite-- you update too frequently and I can't keep up.
Nothing personal. Like I said before, I don't have enough time to keep up with my friends list nowadays. My best wishes to everyone. :)
So, friends cut.
If you want to know why you were defriended, it's probably for one or more of these reasons:
1. We've drifted apart/we didn't really talk to each other much to start with.
2. Either you or I friended each other thinking we were one way and we turned out differently. Normally, I wouldn't have any problem with this but I don't want to waste your time with my posts and I'm sure you don't want someone who doesn't feel very connected to you reading your entries.
3. We only have fandom in common. That's something I really don't care much about at the moment (I haven't written legit fic in over two years) which also means we don't have much in common (see #1). There's nothing wrong with having fandoms in common, but if that's all we've got... then, well, I don't think there's much to build on.
4. Your journal is dead or inactive. Or, quite the opposite-- you update too frequently and I can't keep up.
Nothing personal. Like I said before, I don't have enough time to keep up with my friends list nowadays. My best wishes to everyone. :)