Bus driver fail

[surrey_sucks]

So today was the day, and I asked the hot bus driver out. At the end of the trip, I went up to him and was all awkward, and said, "So, um, I don't want to appear creepy or inappropriate, but I think you're attractive and was wondering if you wanted to go for coffee or something...?" Totally lame, but at least I did it. And just as I predicted, he

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[mummoth]

Oh well, at least you know now. And now that you've taken the initiative once, maybe it'll be easier to do next time you meet someone you want to go out with.

[surrey_sucks]

All I know is that he is not interested in me. I just don't know the reason, as I have no evidence that he is or isn't married. Just because someone says something, doesn't mean it's true.

[wished4this]

You can always ask the other friendly bus driver to find out?

[surrey_sucks]

She doesn't know who he is. And what would be the point? He already said NO.

[wished4this]

The point would only be if you were bothered by not knowing whether or not he was lying and wanted to find out. Otherwise no, there's no point.

[surrey_sucks]

Of course I am bothered by not knowing if he was telling the truth. But why would I go out of my way to find out? I'm not some fucking freak!

[qousqous]

If he were the type lie to you about being married, do you really think you'd still be interested?

[mummoth]

That's a good point.

Forget about whether he's lying or not, just take his word for it. Doubting that he was telling the truth doesn't serve you in any positive way.

Both the guys I know who drive transit busses are attractive-but-married.

[surrey_sucks]

It's very rare to see an attractive male bus driver. Most bus drivers are not attractive!

[surrey_sucks]

Of course not. But that's irrelevant. The point is: I don't know if he was telling the truth.