i am not my hair. or am i?

[suphan]

i;ve been going through a process. a psychological process, a physical process, a spiritual and emotional evolution. you wonder what it is, and i'll tell you. it's my hair. my hair has been this element in my life that has provided too much stability for me, honestly

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[egocentric_fart]

it's definitely a leap. a huge one. it's pretty easy to start to link hair in with a concrete idea of identity, and change is not a light decision at all in regards to something that has been so constant.

i know this because i'm the same way about growing my hair out. it's been short for the majority of so many years that i can't even imagine what longer hair would look like, but i know it probably wouldn't feel right. that's the theory anyway.

change is possibly a pretty good leap to take, but i definitely understand that it's a process.

[suphan]

thanks for being the ONE person who takes me seriously about this!