It's okay to be depressing on a Saturday; no one reads it.
It looks like it's unfriending season, because I've apparently been deleted by several people recently. :-\
Alright, so a couple of them were people I never added back. But guess what: if I didn't add you, it's probably because you never introduced yourself, or commented on any of my posts. Is it so much to ask that I get a little interaction from someone before they expect me to friend them? I know some people - okay, a lot of people - add back automatically; but I don't like adding someone without a reason. An add-back shouldn't just be taken for granted.
And of course, at least one person cut me who was a mutual lj friend, and I'd been hoping to get to know better... but now that's kaput. She did have good reasons; heck, they probably all had good reasons. I'm not mad at any one individual, it's just hard to take when several unfriendings happen at once. :(
I guess this is why I turned off the "when someone deletes you" email notification (it can't make me sad if I don't have to know about it). But Semagic makes you reload your friends listing when you need a new community to appear in the "post to" section. *sigh*
Okay, I'm done being morose. Sorry about that. Just thought getting my thoughts out on [virtual] paper might help, y'know?
Someone rec me some good fic to cheer me up, maybe?
Alright, so a couple of them were people I never added back. But guess what: if I didn't add you, it's probably because you never introduced yourself, or commented on any of my posts. Is it so much to ask that I get a little interaction from someone before they expect me to friend them? I know some people - okay, a lot of people - add back automatically; but I don't like adding someone without a reason. An add-back shouldn't just be taken for granted.
And of course, at least one person cut me who was a mutual lj friend, and I'd been hoping to get to know better... but now that's kaput. She did have good reasons; heck, they probably all had good reasons. I'm not mad at any one individual, it's just hard to take when several unfriendings happen at once. :(
I guess this is why I turned off the "when someone deletes you" email notification (it can't make me sad if I don't have to know about it). But Semagic makes you reload your friends listing when you need a new community to appear in the "post to" section. *sigh*
Okay, I'm done being morose. Sorry about that. Just thought getting my thoughts out on [virtual] paper might help, y'know?
Someone rec me some good fic to cheer me up, maybe?