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[originalluff]

Hi all new member. Im 22, and happy to be fat. I used to hate it, now I dont care. I am me and being me is just fine.

Anyway, I need to start off my first post with a whopper of a question....Possibly a TMI question. Hopefully people dont take offense because I would appriciate some help.

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[chaggalagirl]

1. there's no reason to feel humiliated on top. if you need help getting over it, blindfold your boy so he can't see you. you can focus on doing what feels good for you (get a toy involved for clitoral stimulation if you want), and you can get comfortable with being on top. hell, tie up his hands, too, so he can't touch you if you're self-conscious about that.

2. what squicks you about receiving oral?

3. give bending over a try. you won't know that it won't work for sure unless you try it. if you get dizzy, stop, and go back to what works.

4. most women don't orgasm from intercourse alone. have an orgasm or two before he penetrates you (via toy, his fingers, or even oral if you get up the courage), it will get your nerve endings on edge so you will be more sensitive.

5. during missionary, try putting a pillow under your hips. sometimes a change in angle will do wonders. and this will sound a little weird, but it's something that works for me: pull your lower belly up. he might need the extra room to get close to you. once he's in, let go. that extra little bit of room might be enough to make all the difference.

6. something my boyfriend and i occasionally do is a variation on doggy style. i lay on my side, bent at the hips, so i'm like a 7. he lays behind me, also on his side, and slides right in. you won't get dizzy this way, either.

good luck and happy fucking! ♥

[qryb]

i 2nd all of this!

[originalluff]

Its not so much that I mind being on top, as much as I mind saddling up and then both of us fussing for like 5 minutes to get him in and then having him not STAY in or slip out if I so much as move a fraction of an inch. He's on a trip right now and I SO want to do the blindfold thing with him...That sounds like FUN and I have a pair of toy handcuffs that he always teases me about having...

It would be perfect but even if I DO manage to blind him...his junk is too short to stay put in me. =/ If there was a way to get it to work so I could do something, anything besides just sit there, I would...And sometimes its not even me...He'll move his leg or something and then just...slips out...Then we have to start that retarded song and dance of 4 hands trying to guide it in again. *sigh*

And as for the oral thing- ...Iunno really..It just doesnt interest me...If I had the choice to be given oral, or nothing at all, I would choose nothing. I just dont like the idea lol

[chaggalagirl]

hmm... try a pillow or two under *his* hips.

and really, the song and dance of trying to get it in again is familiar to everyone. there are so very few couples who can have awesome pornstar sex and like, change positions without need for reinsertion that they might as well be fictional. sex needn't be perfect, as long as you and your partner are into each other and having fun.

and as for oral, for the love of chocolate and all other things holy, pleasepleaseplease just try it! at least twice!! it might wake up your junk in a new way. ^_^

[tiggerbbw]

He might not need to stay in for you to have an orgasm. I remember that when I had a partner that wasnt that well endowed that I would move a certain way and he would pop out. I began to use that to my advantage and have his cock rubbing on my clit. It was wonderful.
You might want to try that. Also, if you have something thin like a weight bench that he could lie on, you might find it easier to straddle him and your feet would be on the floor. The other option is having him lay along the edge of the bed so you have one foot/knee on the bed and the other on the floor.
Good luck.