[mod] 2 Years

[heechul]

2 YearsI just realized this place is two years old. Thanks to everyone who has posted here and kept this place alive :) I really envisioned this place as a great spot for the English Super Junior fandom to find and share media, since it seems the Korean fandom has their crap together, but we're seriously all over the place. I think we've pretty

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[whatever_pk]

Okay, just came here to say one thing to eevil:
Ok, LOL at you. You've banned me from supajunia community because of what? Because I said that SNSD ruined this parody live? Do you have any sense of decency? I mean, rotfl, you've banned me because I said something wrong about THE FUCKING OTHER BAND. I didn't even bashed them, just said what I thought. So what, are we in North Korea, without our right to say what we think? You didn't like it - fine, I could just delete this comment, so I wouldn't make other feel bad or sth. BUT NO~! Let's ban this bashing bitch, right?
If I knew that it was supposed to be SNSD-lovers-community, then I'd never join it. I joined because Im a SuJu fan. Because, well, I though that it was for SuJu fans. Damn, how was I wrong.
Okay, I don't care, if such an ignorant is a mod there. You think I'd what, cry, that you banned me? No, not really, because I have a real life and such a think doesn't bother me.
You're like one of these poeple who ruin SuJu fandom. You call yourself a fan? Pff~

That's it, I'm fed up with this community. You don't want me here? Fine.

[whatever_pk]

*eeveil. Oh no, I'vw written something wrong again! How dare I? :O

[heechul]

Get over it. Fandom hate is fandom hate, and I don't want it no matter how you spin it.

[whatever_pk]

Erm. You didn't really have to reply to me - all I wanted to say is that my ban was unfair and, yes, get over with this fandom. But your reply made me want to reply to you too.
Listen, I know that hatred isn't tolerated in fandom - I'm not that stupid to come to certain band's community and bash them. BUT, damn, why don't you all get this? I said something wrong about OTHER BAND. Isn't this a SuJu community? It's not about whole k-pop, right? For god's sake, being SuJu fan isn't equaled with being SNSD fan! If I said something bad about SuJu, I'd understand being banned. But now I don't understand. I didn't see a rule stating "if you insult any band from this world, you'd be banned", and I've read rules a couple of times +in case if I missed something+. If eeveil is a SNSD's fan - good for her, but as a mod she should be fair and don't judge others basing on her own likes.

You don't really have to reply me. I just wanted to say that you've treaten me unfair. That's all. Peace~

[heechul]

Of course I didn't have to reply. It's just that this is my community, and I take complaints seriously.

I just want to touch on one key point, that while this is a Super Junior community, it is open to SJ fans that could be DBSK fans, SNSD fans, or even Seo Taiji fans. Hating on any band promotes hostility, and someone could take offense. Then you have a flame war, and it gets out of hand and it's not worth the time. Deleting comments that show hatred toward any fandom just makes this place a bit more friendly for everyone.
Moreover, hating on another fandom might make other people who are SJ fans but also SNSD fans feel slightly uncomfortable. It only seems fair to avoid ALL sorts of fandom hate, whether for SJ or for WG. It doesn't matter who.

I'm sorry you were banned, and perhaps I would have unbanned you if you had approached the situation a bit differently. Your attitude is less than desirable. You don't acknowledge that you might have been in the wrong, and you didn't apologize at all. It would have been very simple to comment here, saying what you had done and that while you don't understand why it's wrong (perhaps ask for an explanation instead of make assumptions?), but that you were sorry and would like to be unbanned.

I would've unbanned you.

Instead, you've decided to play the victim. You swear, you take offense, and then you say you don't even care (although you went to the trouble of commenting in the first place instead of just walking away). I'm sorry you felt that you were treat unfair, but it wasn't very fair to any SNSD fan that you felt it was okay to bash on their group. I'm not an SNSD fan, but I still respect them for working hard, just like SJ. Not to mention, many of the SNSD girls and our boys are friends. Why the negativity?

[whatever_pk]

Good that you take this community seriously.

Of course it is - but being in this fandom mean that all people here are SuJu fans. Not only, but they came here to express their love +?+ towards SuJu, not other bands. So did I. And I didn't really said that I hate snsd, that their fans deserve to be in hell - I didn't say anything that much offensive. Okay, "attention whores" includes a bad word, but, as I mentioned +or maybe I didn't :x+ my English skills aren't perfect, and all I wanted to say that they're hungry for attention, nothing more. If anyone felt offensed by that they'd tell me, but I didn't receive a word of complain, instead I was banned. Wouldn't it be easier to just write to me, say that my comment is offensive and if I could delete it, in order to prevent fans war? I'd delete it and there wopuln't be this whole conversation, where both sides keep thinking that they are the ones right.

How would I stand it calmly, when I was banned for doing nothing bad? Yes, I still think that I didn't do anything bad, not for SuJu fandom. And especially that I can't express myself so beautifully like you, because, as I said, my English is still poor, so I used the words I knew in order ro express my opinion. Am I supposed to apologize for being banned? But I am sorry for my attitude in first comment - all swearing and being mean towards eeveil, all because I've got to know about this ban just after I woke up - and I'm the worst in the mornings. D: For that I can apologize - and I'm sorry.
I've decided to play the victim, because I am one. Well, if you don't see any unfairness here then seriously fine, let's end this topic. You don't need to unban me if you don't feel like and if you still think of me as a hard-snsd-anti which doesn't deserve to be in this fandom and just makes it worst.