Happy New Moon!/Why my fix is in 2006 or what I want in a man
I'm a fairly traditional woman and I'm looking for a traditional guy with a twist.
Someone who...
Someone who...
- is crazy about me and I find him attractive.
- wants a serious relationship leading to marriage.
- is comfortable in his own skin, with his own plans for the future - not sleepwalking away.
- enjoys my company.
- gives GREAT massages.
If he doesn't know, but is willing to learn massage techniques, that's
okay. I love receiving them & I do give back in return.
- is fiscally/emotionally responsible and mature.
- is loyal
- drinks in moderation.
- is funny
- may not agree that sky diving or bungee jumping is a rational
activity, but loves me enough to drive me to the site and cheer me on!
- takes reasonable care of himself (stress is a killer).
- is fun & brings out the fun side of me.
- is pagan friendly (I need a happy home life!)
- accepts that my path is traditional and all that entails.
- cuddles well and often (especially during serious talks)
- is openly affectionate
- lifts weights. I love nice shoulder muscles.
- cooks (a big turn on for me).
- must be into or willing to be into BDSM as a Dom or Switch,preferably the former. (If he's not into it when we start dating, but is willing to give it serious effort and enjoys it, hey, that's good enough for me.)
- is adventurous and willing to take his time both in and out of the bedroom. Patience is a virtue. So is laughter.
- wants kids w/ me - whether he already has them or not - and if he
has them, he must have a good relationship with them and their mother.
- does NOT stew & spew (or is a reformed stew & spewer) - open communication is not only healthy, but a must.
- when we do argue -is willing to stay up and fight it out. Not go to bed angry.
- loves to read - on a wide variety of subjects (bonus points for reading in bed with me)
- enjoys camping, fishing and yes, putting up tents.
- supportive of my choice to be a writer
- enjoys and wants to travel with me as a part of our life
together- Italy, Ireland, British Isles, Australia, Asia, India,
Africa, the Middle East, South America, the other 49 states and of
course, MN! We may not get to all of those places, but I need
someone who is going to be happy just giving it a go!
- enjoys dancing (major brownie points for tango or swing)
- enjoys basketball/baseball/tennis/golf/football
- loves that I still enjoy sci-fi/comics anything time-travel or historical.
- wants to go to Renfest and any number of cons for different things
- accepts my friends and family
- has a family I can adore. (I love my own family & his would just be more to love.)
- Cherry on the top stuff: opera, musicals, long drives in the country, enjoying the same music I do (jazz/country/r&b/pop/rock/classical/blues) (okay & especially the Sneaker Pimps.
Wants to live in MN!