Dont Ever Look Back The Past Is The Past and X's are X's for a reason.

[sunkistedqt]

If you think about that quote.. dont you think that thats how most things should be.? You should always forget the past and build on from the future. Why even bother talking about it or remembering it? and about Xs.. apparently something went wrong one way or the other if not you would still be with that person.. and some people really arent worth a second chance, but then again, there are some that you think are worth alot more. Ive gone through a few guys, that i felt were worth another chance.. and i gave it to them.. and then sooner or later my feelings changed, and i didnt feel as strongly or that person as i did, then there are some that i didnt even really give a chance but i know that if i did..things would be left to the way that they were and i prolly would have gone through alot more stress, heart ache, tears, and pain that i would have wasted on him. Ive learned that most guys are jerks and the ones that i felt that i should have given them another chance, or maybe just one chance, would have definitely changed things.. and i would be back into the way that i used to be.. being hurt all the time. Things like that i just feel are better left in the past.. never to be brought back into the future. Even if there were times that we had together that were nice, like conversations on the phone for like 4 hours talking about nothing in particular, or sitting out at the park or the lake and JUST talking, or just sitting there with no words and then feeling like it was the greatest conversation, then thinking that someone else actually understands you.
People are meant to come and go through your life... some stay close to you and are there for you and then some leave after only a few short months of knowing them and you hardly speak to them ever again. Some People think that you should build the future from the past, But in my opinion you should forget the past and build through the future. Things are just simpler that way.