Aug 14, 2004 03:04
First off I asked you only because we don't talk regularly anymore.
You told me that you were "going to see what happens" with this guy.
This guy is 19 AND HAS 3 KIDS.
He doesn't like to have sex with condoms.
You know because guys who you haven't talked to in a year just IM you out of blue and sincerely have crushes on you.
It TOTALLY DOESN'T sound like he bullshitting you so he can have a good fuck.
Obviously he's a manipulator if he can get 3 different chicks to fuck without a condom.
Theres NO difference between this situation and me thinking of hooking up with a guy who has 3 STDs, 'cause just like STDs, kids are around for the rest of your life.
If I offended you with that one comment, I'm sorry, it was a little out of line.
But, I'm not sorry for the conversation we had, maybe the way it turned out.
And everyone would agree with me that I'm looking out for you and right about this situation.
I can't fucking believe you don't know what kind've situation you're getting yourself into.
And if it takes a hard shake to make you notice, let it be, I'd expect the same.
Friends don't sweet talk you, and bullshit to avoid a maybe-hot spot, they're honest and look out for you.