Re: Going to the chapel!

[sun_princess]

So, after some long discussions with some very good friends, I've decided against marrying Camilo.  It kills me that I kind of said yes before and now I'm backing out but I have to do what's best for me.

I do have some concerns about some people not being able to keep their mouths shut when asked to.  I won't say names, but if I specifically ask

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[xer0boi]

I understand that you're pissed beyond belief with me and I would be too if I were in your shoes. But I did try talking to you about it. I kept saying to please not go through with it, but you appeared to be so happy and adament about doing it. We both know very well that the person I spoke to - in private, mind you - was trustworthy and someone we all go to for advice. I was scared and extremely worried about you. I did what - at the time - seemed like something I needed to do. I went to her for advice on how to talk to you about it without getting you extremely mad at me. I realize now it wasn't the best thing to do, but the outcome is still the same.

Something as trivial as this cannot be held against me, hun. I would expect you to have done the same thing if I were in your shoes. In fact, I *know* that you would have tried to talk me out of it and, having failed that, you would have went to someone more wise for help. I still love you, but I don't expect you to forgive me. What I did may have betrayed our friendship, but it could have saved you in the long run. So maybe I did the right thing for once.