Dilemma!!
I'm in a really bad position! I've been friends with this guy, "G", I know for about 2 years. Well I've been noticing that he likes me but I don't like him because he acts kinda fake when he's around his friends so when I noticed that I kinda backed away but my friend called and told me he keeps asking her to "hook us up." Well a month later things were fine, he would call me, we'd talk, we'd hang up. It seemed like he didn't like me anyone, which he didn't. So I talk to my friend and she tells me that he's freakin' in love me! Not like, LOVE. Now I know he's crazy but he keeps callin' and asking who I like it's kinda annoying. So me and my family went to a church picnic and "G" was there with his family. His mother calls me over(I think she's tryin' "hook us up" too) and asks why I didn't go to magic mountain with the teenagers at the church. I told her I thought little kids were going too so I didn't want to go. "G" butts in and says, "you know you were too scared to go on the rides." So I gave him the evil eye then everyone started laughin saying how much I put him in check. Then he got all worked up and started saying, "Please, nobody puts me in check." Then his mother yells, while the table was having a good time, "Loren, don't act like you don't know why he's acting like this, you know he likes you." There was dead silence at the table... Later that day I told my mom what happend and she said that "G"'s uncle told both her and my dad that in fifteen years we were gonna get married!!! My mom told me that my dad acted like he didn't even hear him. Some people might think this is cute, but personally I think it's gross and pigheaded how a guy has this dream that he's just gonna get the girl in fifteen years, ew...! I'm gonna be thirty by then, that's gross. I really need your input, and I know it might seem like I'm mean but when people (or at least "G") start thinking about marriage, other "purks" pop up in the mind if you know what I mean. He's just not my type and I don't know how to tell because he might go on a rampage about how black girls never give guys a chance and that's why blk guys go out with mexicans. I'm really pissed off right now so give something that'll help, please!!