Hey, where is the forest?!
Today was a normal ho hum day. However after the crazy day yesterday helping Kawaii with her procedure her cell and license got lost in my work bag. This meant that I took it to work today. Now contrary to what I had thought if you get snagged without a license on person you don't get the 24 hour grace period to display your license like I had though but you get a fine which you then have to contest in court. Not most cases are thrown out when a license is presented but there still is that fine and then the court date. SHENANIGANS I say! Anyway Kawaii was unable to use the car. So her planning for the weekend is now packed into one day. I had been talking to her tonight and wanted some us time. We have been putting a lot of other thing ahead of us since we had such a huge talk the other week. Sex has been sporadic and Master slave opportunities have been a little "as usual". I understand that there were some big things that neither of us can or could avoid. I'm OK with that. So I had the thought oh hey maybe a half hour us time after the kids have gone to there dad's. I was met with a very frazzled Kawaii.
Attempting (poorly) to be compassionate I tried to get to the details and work on my management expectations to help her on her project to try and lower the overwhelming feeling. I was taught that I ask how is she doing, how are we doing, and is there anything I can do to help. I've asked several people about what to do when your in charge of someone who feels overwhelmed and the answer is to listen to the issue then offer help/resources and to clear up the priorities so the person knows what to focus on.
This didn't work. I was told there is nothing I can do and that I couldn't even attempt to help with priorities because everything HAS to be done. I realize this. However I could offer a plan of attach and make a list (which is helpful for submissives). I don't think she was very receptive.
I kinda though hey since there is nothing I can do I should just walk away and write in this journal. Maybe pass it by with Rya. While I was forming a sentence to send to R I sent it to Kawaii instead (Stupid computer!). I had to go back out and apologize with lots of egg all over my face. We were able to calmly talk a bit. Maybe we can have some connection time in the future. With all the things happening lately been kinda missing her, missing her little, and missing our M/s dynamic. Silly since it really hasn't been a very long time at all. Kinda like those times when your loved one is away for one night and you miss them already.
Attempting (poorly) to be compassionate I tried to get to the details and work on my management expectations to help her on her project to try and lower the overwhelming feeling. I was taught that I ask how is she doing, how are we doing, and is there anything I can do to help. I've asked several people about what to do when your in charge of someone who feels overwhelmed and the answer is to listen to the issue then offer help/resources and to clear up the priorities so the person knows what to focus on.
This didn't work. I was told there is nothing I can do and that I couldn't even attempt to help with priorities because everything HAS to be done. I realize this. However I could offer a plan of attach and make a list (which is helpful for submissives). I don't think she was very receptive.
I kinda though hey since there is nothing I can do I should just walk away and write in this journal. Maybe pass it by with Rya. While I was forming a sentence to send to R I sent it to Kawaii instead (Stupid computer!). I had to go back out and apologize with lots of egg all over my face. We were able to calmly talk a bit. Maybe we can have some connection time in the future. With all the things happening lately been kinda missing her, missing her little, and missing our M/s dynamic. Silly since it really hasn't been a very long time at all. Kinda like those times when your loved one is away for one night and you miss them already.