Preparing...Hoping...Part II...
So my mom is in really bad shape, but I'm still hoping she pulls through. My Dad had to ask me some really hard questions on Friday. First he asked my brother and I, "If your Mom's heart stops...Do you want them recesitate her?" I couldn't believe he was asking me that question. This cold, dark reality just hit me like freight train. It took me about 10 min to answer him. Since my Moms ain't no punk bitch, I told my Dad for them to recesitate her. My Moms is a fighter, and she'll fight till the bitter end. The second question my Dad asked me is, if my Mom does die...Would we want her buried here, or in the Philippines. I think that was the hardest question. At first I said the Philippines, cause Moms was born there, but then the talk of cremation came up. So I said why don't we cremate her, bury one half here...and the other half in the Philippines. So my idea was the best one. Then Dad asked me the last question, if it would be alright to donate my Mom's organs to people. We said yes, since a part of my mom would be living. And also, my Moms was always about helping people. After my Dad asked my brother and I this stuff, we went down to the hospital cafeteria to eat lunch. My uncle and his family met us down there and we discussed everything and decided that we should recesitate her if my Mom's heart stops, donate her organs, and cremate her and bury in both places. Friday was definately one of the hardest days in my life. I pray it will be the last hard day...