Oct 14, 2004 20:03
people fail to stop and think sometimes.
people spend so much time thinking about who they want to be that they forget to appreciate who they are.
Psychologist Carl Rogers says that"if you are transparent other will be too". If you don't know what this means, allow me to elaborate.
If you are yourself.
If you are honest with yourself, and with others, people will trust you more.
I have don'e so much research on psychology and philosophy, and this theory seems to prevail.
People will want to be around you if you are honest.
If you don't know, say you don't know.
Just be yourself.
Everyone does it.
We spend so much time planning out exactly what our personalities should be like and trying so hard to impress people that we forget to remember who we actually are.
Just remember that the most important persanality you can attain is your trus self. If you are always the same, if you are always yourself, people come to respect you for not following the trends of society.
Dont listen to magazines.
Don't listen to television.
Don't listen to movie stars.
listen to your heart.
That's all I'm going to say.