generation gap? really???
yesterday while watching The Bachelorette on cable, because The Bachelorette has to date so many guys in the show, my dad was like "eeyer this kinda girl.." and then he said something about the girl being "so fat ah" and im like, stunned. she's not the typical skinny blonde. she has the curves a woman should have and she is so gorgeous. so i replied "you call that fat??" i didnt expect him to say "yeahhh. girls the waist should be... unless after give birth la" and im like 0,0!!!
i mean, there are millions out there suffering and struggling every minute of the day with their eating disorders. besides, who is to say how girls are supposed to look, curvy or thin or lean and fit. and for him to say that to me, his daughter. what am i supposed to think? that as long as im not a mother, i cannot and must not gain weight? what is this?! i cant even-
girls, you are b-e-a-utiful the way you are, dont go changing for society's superficial and warped stereotypical mentality, or for anyone at all. lovely the way you are. [: