May 18, 2004 21:02
MY EXISTING SITUATION
The situation is difficult and he is trying to persist in his objectives against resistance. Finds it necessary to conceal his intentions as an added precaution, in order to disarm the opposition.
MY STRESS SOURCES
The existing situation is disagreeable. Feels lonely and uncertain as he has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to his self-sufficiency because of the restraint he normally imposes on himself. Since he wants to demonstrate the unique quality of his own character, he tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal his fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize his behavior with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference he really longs for the approval and esteem of others.
MY RESTRAINED CHARACTERISTICS
Becomes distressed when his needs or desires are misunderstood and feels that he has no one to turn to or rely on. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.
Feels that things stand in his way, that circumstances are forcing him to compromise and forgo some pleasures for the time being.
MY DESIRED OBJECTIVE
Desires a tranquil, peaceful state of harmony offering quiet contentment and a sense of belonging.
MY ACTUAL PROBLEMS
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of his hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. He is trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting him from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation.
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem.
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