Dec 05, 2006 02:55
Life is what you make of it. That is what they say, is it not?
Living life to the fullest doesn't come easy for everyone.
Everyone worries about the most insignificant shit like having beds made.
There are reason's that I get upset when I feel like I can't live my life the way I would like to, or when I am prevented from experiencing opportunities that come my way.
The biggest reason is death.
Death is the topic most people avoid.
No one wants to believe it'll happen, therefore it is blocked out, nonexsistant.
The problem with this is that when death occurs some lose their minds, but the majority just do not know how to handle it.
They blame anything or anyone they can for their loss and usually lash out at those who try to comfort them.
It'll never change, people will always behave this way.
Is there a better way to handle these difficult times?
I'm no expert, and I have no degree's. I do think there are alternatives if people became more open minded as a whole.
Very few people are truely open to different idea's, the majority are closed minded yuppies who can't accept anything that doesn't appeal to them.
I would imagin if you're open to the idea of death, it can be less painful to face. Whether it be you vs. death, or a loved one that has passed away.
I'm not saying it'll be easy, death will never be easy. It leads to so many questions, questions that can't be answered. That is what makes people so uncomfortable, they can never get an answer.
It's hard to face the fact that you can be alive one day, planning for the next and inbetween that time you could die.
So why fuss over the little things that don't matter rather than the little things that do?
The difference between making a bed, and making a call to someone you love is huge and in the end the more important thing is that call.
That is why I want to be able to embrace the opportunities that present themseleves and really live and have a good time, because some opportunities will only come once.
You never know when shit will happen, but you know it will.
R.I.P
SB