What constitutes a relationship? How much does one person have to give? Can you have a relationship with someone who is not there? Is there a name for this type of interaction?
Can you have a relationship with someone who is not there?
This one is a bit vague. Or maybe i have a hard time relating based on my experiences. Several opinions and maybe i'll seem contradictory of myself.
i have 2 beautiful children. Yet i'm not what i consider a mother. Since i don't see them or even have contact with them. Yet, if they ever called upon me or needed me, i'd be there in any manner in which i could. i at one point was in a place in my life where i couldn't care for myself muchless them. i had to love them enough to let them go. So i'm not there. But i do have a relationship with them in my memories and in my heart. So i'm not there. It's not an active relationship. But to me still a relationship.
Friendships. i have what i call r/l freinds and o/l friends. Though i've learned through my experiences that things don't always click in real life with folks like it seems it may have online. Some i considered good friends until we met then realized we really had nothing in common. Others i met and it was as if we'd known eachother for years. So some friends are not with me physically but mean no less. my 2 best friends {other than Master} are long distance and we've not seen eachother in quite a while. Yet they mean no less. But i have had r/l time with them and feel i know them fairly well. Plus i've known them for years. They aren't always here for me physically but they are never more than a phone call or email away. Yet honestly, at times i yearn and wish they were closer. i miss them quite a lot.
Could i have a primary relationship {such as Master/slave or Dominant/submissive or significant other} where one is not there for me physically? No. While Master is away travelling quite a bit on business, He's home when He can be. i would not be happy in a relationship of that sort where our seeing eachother was limited to a few times a year or less. i need one on one, face to face, and person to person intimacy that phone calls, emails and chat just can't provide.
Is there a name for this type of interaction?
"Long distance" is the first term that comes to mind. People who may or may not have met but keep a relationship with eachother of sorts through emails, chats and phone calls. Yet other times it can be a relationship that had strong ties at one time that for one reason or another has been severed by time or distance. i don't know a term for this.
This one is a bit vague. Or maybe i have a hard time relating based on my experiences. Several opinions and maybe i'll seem contradictory of myself.
i have 2 beautiful children. Yet i'm not what i consider a mother. Since i don't see them or even have contact with them. Yet, if they ever called upon me or needed me, i'd be there in any manner in which i could. i at one point was in a place in my life where i couldn't care for myself muchless them. i had to love them enough to let them go. So i'm not there. But i do have a relationship with them in my memories and in my heart. So i'm not there. It's not an active relationship. But to me still a relationship.
Friendships. i have what i call r/l freinds and o/l friends. Though i've learned through my experiences that things don't always click in real life with folks like it seems it may have online. Some i considered good friends until we met then realized we really had nothing in common. Others i met and it was as if we'd known eachother for years. So some friends are not with me physically but mean no less. my 2 best friends {other than Master} are long distance and we've not seen eachother in quite a while. Yet they mean no less. But i have had r/l time with them and feel i know them fairly well. Plus i've known them for years. They aren't always here for me physically but they are never more than a phone call or email away. Yet honestly, at times i yearn and wish they were closer. i miss them quite a lot.
Could i have a primary relationship {such as Master/slave or Dominant/submissive or significant other} where one is not there for me physically? No. While Master is away travelling quite a bit on business, He's home when He can be. i would not be happy in a relationship of that sort where our seeing eachother was limited to a few times a year or less. i need one on one, face to face, and person to person intimacy that phone calls, emails and chat just can't provide.
Is there a name for this type of interaction?
"Long distance" is the first term that comes to mind. People who may or may not have met but keep a relationship with eachother of sorts through emails, chats and phone calls. Yet other times it can be a relationship that had strong ties at one time that for one reason or another has been severed by time or distance. i don't know a term for this.
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