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So the story of my life currently is that my 31 year old stepsister is behaving like a 5 year old who really wanted that doll for christmas.
Jer, my lovely boy is living with her, and has been since September first, I'd like to point out it's now November and he still does not have a fob to get into the apartment building... So, he's decided he's going to move home to Kelowna (YAY!!!!) Anyways, he told her like two weeks ago, she went away, and now she's home and the shit has hit the fan. She is furious, refusing to speak to me, making him feel like he doesn't want to leave his room, she won't talk to him. So the poor boy, now has no key, and has to call this furiously overreacting woman every time he needs to come home. Her big argument is that we told her it would be long term. Neither of us remember saying this, though we did imagine it would be longer than 4 months when he moved in. However, life happens, as would have been the case if say she didn't like him and wanted him to move. Anyways, the part that I'm having a huge issue with is that he told her middle of december, he's going to pay rent until the end of december, so she has 2.5 months to find a new roommate...
Doesn't this sound like a temper tantrum to you??? I tried to send her an apology email yesterday after she hung up on me on the phone, explaining that we're not trying to hurt her or make her life more difficult, her response was just no... I would think by 31 she's got to realise life happens, get over it. Obviously if we were deliberatly trying to make things tough for her we wouldn't have given her so much notice.. Bah ego-centric people make me sad.
I'm honestly embarassed that she's my sister at this moment, I feel awful for having got Jeremy into this situation, and now he's stuck there and i'm still living my easy life up here. I hate that she's doing this.. Why can't she just grow up??
Jer, my lovely boy is living with her, and has been since September first, I'd like to point out it's now November and he still does not have a fob to get into the apartment building... So, he's decided he's going to move home to Kelowna (YAY!!!!) Anyways, he told her like two weeks ago, she went away, and now she's home and the shit has hit the fan. She is furious, refusing to speak to me, making him feel like he doesn't want to leave his room, she won't talk to him. So the poor boy, now has no key, and has to call this furiously overreacting woman every time he needs to come home. Her big argument is that we told her it would be long term. Neither of us remember saying this, though we did imagine it would be longer than 4 months when he moved in. However, life happens, as would have been the case if say she didn't like him and wanted him to move. Anyways, the part that I'm having a huge issue with is that he told her middle of december, he's going to pay rent until the end of december, so she has 2.5 months to find a new roommate...
Doesn't this sound like a temper tantrum to you??? I tried to send her an apology email yesterday after she hung up on me on the phone, explaining that we're not trying to hurt her or make her life more difficult, her response was just no... I would think by 31 she's got to realise life happens, get over it. Obviously if we were deliberatly trying to make things tough for her we wouldn't have given her so much notice.. Bah ego-centric people make me sad.
I'm honestly embarassed that she's my sister at this moment, I feel awful for having got Jeremy into this situation, and now he's stuck there and i'm still living my easy life up here. I hate that she's doing this.. Why can't she just grow up??