You're completely missing the point of both my comments and the post. I never said to sell everything she owns (but did suggest selling some things) and I gave her more than one suggestion on how to help her dog.
If you want to take things out of perspective then fine, I just wanted to clear that up.
As far as I can see, nothing has been taken out of perspective here. You provided the OP with unsolicited, rather patronising advice, and when she, quite reasonably, declined to accept it on the grounds that she's already doing all she can and that wasn't what she came to the comm for, you saw fit to devote a whole post to mocking her for not doing what YOU think best. It was perfectly clear she was looking for moral support, not advice.
I think an apology is probably in order, rather than this pathetic attempt to defend your decision to mock someone who is clearly incredibly worried and upset.
Except she didn't not accept the advice...she took it and started doing things. She wasn't already doing all she could, she just gave up. It was oh crap...vet bills, oh well gotta put my dog down. then we gave her advice on how not to kill her dog, and she started looking into that. Obviously, she did agree with us on that what we said was reasonable measures. Great, she was looking for moral support, but why not give advice when it could help save her dogs life - that is just retarded.
Sorry, I won't apologize for helping her save her dog's life - which is what she wanted btw, she wanted to keep her dog alive.
The OP refers to both of us, hence when you are talking to her and berating her and not making a difference between the two of us I assume you are talking to both of us in general.
Oh good lord its still in the post, it is still in reference to the entire situation. We were snarked together, for our conduct together, therefore, when you make reference to such behavior it can be taken as both of us...not hard to grasp.
... Except you didn't make the snarky post to which I was referring when I said an apology was in order. I'm sorry that it wasn't immediately obvious to you, but the fact that I am now TELLING YOU I WASN'T TALKING TO YOU should be enough to make this a closed case. Unless you WANT me to start on you as well. Seriously, why are you trying so hard to include yourself in this dicussion? Isn't it a good thing that I wasn't actually referring to you in my comment?
If you want to take things out of perspective then fine, I just wanted to clear that up.
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WAY TO GO.
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YOU are the ones taking things out of perspective, darlin. Sorry to report.
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I think an apology is probably in order, rather than this pathetic attempt to defend your decision to mock someone who is clearly incredibly worried and upset.
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I couldn't agree more.
P.S. I can't type today at all.
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Sorry, I won't apologize for helping her save her dog's life - which is what she wanted btw, she wanted to keep her dog alive.
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