Do we get it? No. Do we want it? Yes!
Everyday there seems like there is something about the morale of people that I find disturbing. Today it's all these little girls who think that college is going to make them a better person.
All these girls who think that sex and booze are the number one things that are going to make guys like them. All these dumb guys and girls who think that having sex with more than one person A DAY is right and okay. Cool guys, throw yourselves away like that. That's your reputation you're messing with.
Do you know how many people have said "I regret that?" Boys and girls alike? That whole "I regret the first time" or "I regret that one night stand?" Jeez, even I regret my first guy even though he was my BOYFRIEND at the time and I was in a RELATIONSHIP.
I don't feel self-righteous or anything like that and I fear coming off that way. It just seems to me like too many people say they're "comfortable" with themselves so it's okay or they get hammered so they have an "excuse."
I don't respect that. I'm sorry. I may respect the person and I may like them as a friend (I have a certain male friend that this makes me think of...) but as for their choices...... nope. Sorry.
I know someone who's girlfriend is pregnant. He isn't even sure if he's the father. That's how much she sleeps around, and he knows it. What's appealing about that? How is a girl who sleeps around on you, who knows with how many people, attractive?
This is temporary. Find something eternal.
Are you happy?