Sep 18, 2005 22:53
Marlo doesn't like Nathan. I can understand, and alot of the time even agree with her argument.
But whatever may or may not be true of Nathan's character, Nathan has nothing but great appreciation for the musicaian's he works with. He has so much positive feedback for all of us, perhaps most of all Dan. Sometimes what he says off-hand is rude sounding, or just unthoughtful, but I know that he doesn't actually mean them.
What people have to realize about Nathan is that he just doesn't think very many things out. This often times has bad effects to other people, and Nathan must take the fault for anything he has done.
But with everything Nathan has done, I still think he appreciates the people around him, and has care. I don't like it when he says things like "if our drummer shows up" either, but I also know that he just sincerely wants dan to be there. So do I. But I know he's busy, and Nathan and I are in agreement that Dan needs to manage more pressing matters.
I have defended Nathan to the extent that he has earned from his actions towards others.
And I will say that I wish all this flaming wasn't aimed to tear people apart.