Eliana, first off, thank you for expressing your being pissed at Julia to someone besides me and Troy. Julia, doesn't it occur to you that there might be a reason BOTH OF US HAVEN'T been in the house much lately? I resent the blame for the letter all on me. Both of us wrote it, so there. Both of us sat there and decided exactly what to say, neither letting the other write the whole damned thing. I don't think Troy'll take any of us shopping. He's fucking busy. Sorry. I don't happen to think you're scary. You've been ticking me off for awhile, to borrow Eliana's word, and honestly I hope that when we aren't living together it might be possible for us to get along again. I think that living with you is pretty hard for both me and El, and I NEED MY OWN SPACE. Eliana and I both. We can give each other our own spaces if we share a room. Which we have now decided we will do, and we are going to move in together. You want the last straw? Fine, you can have it.
You fucked some skank IN MY BED. I was always, the 2 times I had sex in our house this summer, NEVER to be near anything of yours. For God's sake. And this? This is some dude I don't fucking know from Adam. You barely know him. Jesus. Some fucking skank in my bed, and I don't even get to hear about it? Wow, that was nice. (And also? In the _small_ place where I keep my magic stuff. You once got told a little how goddamn special those things are. Influenced by energy. So yes.) You asked. You have.
I am NOT continuing this after this letter online. In person might be better. And there it is. I like you very much theoretically but it doesn't seem to be the sort of friendship that works out living together, perhaps after this year we can get back to getting along. Probably it is mainly a juxtaposition of breeding and living styles, no more one's fault then the other. As for the mattress - the same agreement applies as far as I am concerned when we got the house. I brought the furniture, you got the accoutrments. I'd prefer not to have all the furniture in the house and basically nothing else, when we split up we can bargain or whatever, but for now, that's cool. You can have the drawers chest, it's not so big a deal for me. I own one lamp, the heatlamp I've had since COA. I don't know yours situ.
In the closet. It was always intended to be a space for ANYONE who needed it, not just you, and YOU NEVER SAID OTHERWISE. I did not do anything on your side of the bed, which is the only thing you've said not to do, and there was nothing on the surface that had particular value to you as far as I know. I appoligise for pinning the letter entirely on you; it appears I was wrong about that. As for not telling you, you weren't there when I told Eliana. When I got home the previous day you stayed up for about 2 minutes before going to bed, okay? What did you expect me to say, hi Ariel, hope you had a good day, guess what I did last night? I would have told you if you'd been around for any length of time! Nor do I think there was anything skanky about it. Just because you don't know him at all doesn't mean I don't, and Ariel, I don't sleep around with just anyone. It has been several months since we met after all; it's actually conservative by some standards (3 date rule etc.) I had my own reasons for not wanting to be on the bed, but IF YOU'D TOLD ME TO STAY OUT OF THE CLOSET I WOULD HAVE. We made out in the closet once before, and I am pretty certain you both knew about it and didn't object. The last time we talked, you said it was okay. In any case, you (pardon me, NEITHER of you) have been dealing with this in any way I can work with. I can't change something if I don't know there's a problem. It's unreasonble to blame me for something I didn't know you didn't want me to do. And if you want me to move out of the HOUSE you could have damned well given more advanced warning.
I resent the blame for the letter all on me.
Both of us wrote it, so there. Both of us sat there and decided exactly what to say, neither letting the other write the whole damned thing.
I don't think Troy'll take any of us shopping. He's fucking busy. Sorry.
I don't happen to think you're scary. You've been ticking me off for awhile, to borrow Eliana's word, and honestly I hope that when we aren't living together it might be possible for us to get along again. I think that living with you is pretty hard for both me and El, and I NEED MY OWN SPACE. Eliana and I both. We can give each other our own spaces if we share a room. Which we have now decided we will do, and we are going to move in together.
You want the last straw? Fine, you can have it.
You fucked some skank IN MY BED.
I was always, the 2 times I had sex in our house this summer, NEVER to be near anything of yours. For God's sake. And this? This is some dude I don't fucking know from Adam. You barely know him. Jesus.
Some fucking skank in my bed, and I don't even get to hear about it? Wow, that was nice.
(And also? In the _small_ place where I keep my magic stuff. You once got told a little how goddamn special those things are. Influenced by energy. So yes.)
You asked. You have.
I am NOT continuing this after this letter online. In person might be better. And there it is. I like you very much theoretically but it doesn't seem to be the sort of friendship that works out living together, perhaps after this year we can get back to getting along. Probably it is mainly a juxtaposition of breeding and living styles, no more one's fault then the other.
As for the mattress - the same agreement applies as far as I am concerned when we got the house. I brought the furniture, you got the accoutrments. I'd prefer not to have all the furniture in the house and basically nothing else, when we split up we can bargain or whatever, but for now, that's cool. You can have the drawers chest, it's not so big a deal for me. I own one lamp, the heatlamp I've had since COA. I don't know yours situ.
There.
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I appoligise for pinning the letter entirely on you; it appears I was wrong about that.
As for not telling you, you weren't there when I told Eliana. When I got home the previous day you stayed up for about 2 minutes before going to bed, okay? What did you expect me to say, hi Ariel, hope you had a good day, guess what I did last night? I would have told you if you'd been around for any length of time! Nor do I think there was anything skanky about it. Just because you don't know him at all doesn't mean I don't, and Ariel, I don't sleep around with just anyone. It has been several months since we met after all; it's actually conservative by some standards (3 date rule etc.) I had my own reasons for not wanting to be on the bed, but IF YOU'D TOLD ME TO STAY OUT OF THE CLOSET I WOULD HAVE. We made out in the closet once before, and I am pretty certain you both knew about it and didn't object. The last time we talked, you said it was okay.
In any case, you (pardon me, NEITHER of you) have been dealing with this in any way I can work with. I can't change something if I don't know there's a problem. It's unreasonble to blame me for something I didn't know you didn't want me to do.
And if you want me to move out of the HOUSE you could have damned well given more advanced warning.
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