i am only sitting here, nothing else

[stressballpoped]

there was a baby shower for a co-worker today.  the baby clothes were tiny and cute but they were all baby pink.  by god, there are other colors in the world.  but i think the soon to be mother was too emotionally touched to see that.  the decoration used for the surprise party will be recycled for the next baby shower.  when the party was over, a

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[psychox]

"they were all baby pink. by god, there are other colors in the world."

Yes, but they want to reinforce society's norms in terms of gender identities and roles, so they have to start early and get it through the kid's head and it's a she. If they don't, then who knows what horrible things might happen? They might end up with a homosexual.

Or a transexual.

Or psychox.

"she said are they saving it for yours?"

I would be offended. "Are you saying I look FAT?" But hey, it could be, like, a virgin birth or something. Two words: Sperm Bank. Or, I dunno, in vitro self-fertilization--then you could give birth to your own CLONE. That would be rad. I would buy the mini-you pink and blue clothes in equal numbers, just to confuse the fuck out of it.

"that's normal for guys here to find a girl in china, but not the reverse. would any guy want to come here with a girl's help?"Is there something wrong with that? Oh, wait, pink and blue, pink and blue, pink and blue, pink and blue, pink and blue, pink and fucking blue. I get it

[stressballpoped]

u don't know how it is in china. alot guys go back to china to find a wife, but hardly any girls does that, especially someone like me who's been here a while. anyway, i am not saying i won't ever do that.

[psychox]

if girls are getting married to get to u.s, guys will do the same. -a

[stressballpoped]

yes, i agree. but probably girls are easier to get in

[psychox]

Then maybe you should try and get a girl instead.

Heh heh heh...

[psychox]

I had a long reply that included an analysis of gender roles and socioeconomic status and marriage, but when I hit send, the browser crashed. I am FUCKING pissed. FUCK YOU, Mozilla. The FUCK was that? But whatever, blah blah blah, basically agreed with that "a" poster. Even if most guys won't do that, all you need is the one exception. Do whatever works for you, regardless of what the majority would do, regardless of what they think. And yeah, people have suffered more than that for love. Those who don't, grow old faster and wonder where their youth went.

[stressballpoped]

thanks, i will try my best