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why can't people just be honest to one another for once?
Is it really that hard to say, "I'm pissed at you right now" or "I'm not interested in you?" all of this bullshit we go through to save one another's feelings really just isn't worth it in the end. It winds up hurting a lot more when you realize what is going on on your own, because not only have you been decieved into thinking nothing was wrong, you've been belittled by being denied the truth and patronizied.
But it's not because they care about you.
Far from it.
They're so concerned with saving their own ass and avoiding confrontation that more often than not the game backfires.
Is it really that hard to say, "I'm pissed at you right now" or "I'm not interested in you?" all of this bullshit we go through to save one another's feelings really just isn't worth it in the end. It winds up hurting a lot more when you realize what is going on on your own, because not only have you been decieved into thinking nothing was wrong, you've been belittled by being denied the truth and patronizied.
But it's not because they care about you.
Far from it.
They're so concerned with saving their own ass and avoiding confrontation that more often than not the game backfires.