Why I don't have friends that are girls...
HATE Gossip, HATE Melodrama. Boys aren't usually concerned with such things. Things are as they are and I like that.
Co-worker at work again. Same Co-worker bullshit I've written about before. Can't stand it.
Again she is SUPPOSED to be my friend. And I am a friend, especially when she wants something or wants someone to listen to her whine about whatever horrible thing that she's had to endure today. I swear, there is nothing good that goes on in her life. Must always have something to bitch about.
We always eat lunch together. If I'm ready before she is, I go get her. If she's ready before me, she comes gets me. Today, she didn't get me. I looked at the clock and it was 12:07. Didn't realize time for lunch. I got sit down with lunch in hand and it's the silent treatment. No high, how are you, no bitching, no nothing. So I bite. "What's wrong" I say. "I have things that are bothering me and I don't want to talk about it". Ok. That's fine. Apparently she didn't want to talk about anything else either. Very odd for her. Still no conversation from her to me at all. I ask "That's fine, we don't have to talk about it if you don't want to. Unless I've done something to upset you." Which, of course, I couldn't have since I don't hardly deal with her and her bullshit anymore. She then tell me "Co-worker X is mad at you". I ask why and her response is because I didn't get a file back to her until around 3 pm yesterday when it was given to me that morning. And while I should have been working on it, I was talking to someone else at the time.
1. I will talk to who I want when I want.
2. There is no deadline for that file except for end of day. 3 pm is before end of day. Bite me.
So I ask "Well, why are you so cold towards me when someone else is mad at me?" Her response "Because I have to listen to it."
1. No one told you you had to listen to it.
2. If you choose to listen to it because you are "trying to help her and if I let her yell at you she probably would get fired that's how mad she is," then you both can fuck off.
3. FYI, her being mad at me really, technically, has nothing to do with you and me. If you can't seperate feelings, then I guess I'm not a good friend of yours anyway, until you want my hot chocolate that I keep at my desk or have questions on an account that you don't know what to do with.
So I explain to her that there is no 3pm or 4pm deadline. It's end of day which is 5 pm. She throws up her hands and says she doesn't do that file, doesn't know about it and doesn't care to know about it, effectively shutting me up. She doesn't say anything else. Finishes her lunch, gets up, throws away, and walks back to her desk. Not a "bye" or "I'm going back to my desk now" or "see you later" or nothing.
Every time I call her I get an attitude that I'm interrupting her work and how dare I call her even when it's just to ask a question. She doesn't talk like that to any other team member. But because she's close to me, I guess she feels she can get away with it. That sucks.
So I've decided not to eat lunch with her for a while and see what happens.
Also I would like to mention, that I have not actually talked to said co-worker that's angry at me. Although chances are she's not NEARLY as angry at me as she has lead me to believe. Why....she exaggerates everything. Big shock.
This would really suck if I don't be friends with her anymore because I do work with her on the same account. That can prove to be most unpleasant if I get attitude every single time I need to interact with her about something.
Co-worker at work again. Same Co-worker bullshit I've written about before. Can't stand it.
Again she is SUPPOSED to be my friend. And I am a friend, especially when she wants something or wants someone to listen to her whine about whatever horrible thing that she's had to endure today. I swear, there is nothing good that goes on in her life. Must always have something to bitch about.
We always eat lunch together. If I'm ready before she is, I go get her. If she's ready before me, she comes gets me. Today, she didn't get me. I looked at the clock and it was 12:07. Didn't realize time for lunch. I got sit down with lunch in hand and it's the silent treatment. No high, how are you, no bitching, no nothing. So I bite. "What's wrong" I say. "I have things that are bothering me and I don't want to talk about it". Ok. That's fine. Apparently she didn't want to talk about anything else either. Very odd for her. Still no conversation from her to me at all. I ask "That's fine, we don't have to talk about it if you don't want to. Unless I've done something to upset you." Which, of course, I couldn't have since I don't hardly deal with her and her bullshit anymore. She then tell me "Co-worker X is mad at you". I ask why and her response is because I didn't get a file back to her until around 3 pm yesterday when it was given to me that morning. And while I should have been working on it, I was talking to someone else at the time.
1. I will talk to who I want when I want.
2. There is no deadline for that file except for end of day. 3 pm is before end of day. Bite me.
So I ask "Well, why are you so cold towards me when someone else is mad at me?" Her response "Because I have to listen to it."
1. No one told you you had to listen to it.
2. If you choose to listen to it because you are "trying to help her and if I let her yell at you she probably would get fired that's how mad she is," then you both can fuck off.
3. FYI, her being mad at me really, technically, has nothing to do with you and me. If you can't seperate feelings, then I guess I'm not a good friend of yours anyway, until you want my hot chocolate that I keep at my desk or have questions on an account that you don't know what to do with.
So I explain to her that there is no 3pm or 4pm deadline. It's end of day which is 5 pm. She throws up her hands and says she doesn't do that file, doesn't know about it and doesn't care to know about it, effectively shutting me up. She doesn't say anything else. Finishes her lunch, gets up, throws away, and walks back to her desk. Not a "bye" or "I'm going back to my desk now" or "see you later" or nothing.
Every time I call her I get an attitude that I'm interrupting her work and how dare I call her even when it's just to ask a question. She doesn't talk like that to any other team member. But because she's close to me, I guess she feels she can get away with it. That sucks.
So I've decided not to eat lunch with her for a while and see what happens.
Also I would like to mention, that I have not actually talked to said co-worker that's angry at me. Although chances are she's not NEARLY as angry at me as she has lead me to believe. Why....she exaggerates everything. Big shock.
This would really suck if I don't be friends with her anymore because I do work with her on the same account. That can prove to be most unpleasant if I get attitude every single time I need to interact with her about something.