Re: the weight debate building. (this is about eating issues, not medical conditions)

Sep 16, 2008 11:37

As someone who was groomed by her mother to have a specific body type, and ridiculed publicly when I didn't have that, as someone who was told by her father that it looked like I had a tire in my waist band, as someone that was an exercise bulimic in her late teens and was grey-faced and wan from being unhealthy, as someone who watched her best ( Read more... )

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bitchygrrl September 16 2008, 17:03:12 UTC
*points to icon* In truth I don't know how anyone could think you meant any harm. We don't know each other super well, but you have always been a sweet, an genuinely kind person, so you know if they thought you were judging I think that's more of their own self judgement.

I understand exactly what you are saying. Both my parents have suffered serious health problems due to unhealthy eating. My Dad had that major stroke, he is now down to healthy doctor approved weight, and doing well. Still has some hand paralysis though :(

My Mom has finally realized that she doesn't want to be in that situation so she is slowly losing. I'm really proud of her efforst because I know it's hard for her. She became disabled a few years ago due to arthritis and gained a lot of weight.

I gained a lot too, I've always been plump but pretty healthy, but this year I found myself at 180lbs I'm 5'0 now we know that's not healthy and frankly it didn't feel good physically. I actually joined Weight Watchers which puts a real emphasis on changing behavior and figuring out why you eat? I'm down to 154 lbs. I have about 25lbs to go to hit the doctor suggested weight and healthy BMI range. I have learned a lot in the weight loss process. I have also started working out. I started with just long steady walks and I've added weight training and more intense cardio with some DVD's. I welcome any encouragement or advice.

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rikibeth September 16 2008, 17:06:01 UTC
Go you!

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bitchygrrl September 16 2008, 18:04:07 UTC
Thanks :)

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stoney321 September 16 2008, 18:46:14 UTC
This is all based on a tactless comment Alton Brown made on a board somewhere, and I can see that it's really upsetting to a lot of folks on my flist for a variety of reasons. I made an outspoken comment in someone's journal, and felt the need to clarify, which is funny because that post was also a clarification post. :D

WOMAN. That is so wonderful that you're taking such charge of your health! That is a tremendous amount of weight, and i bet your bones/joints feel a lot better, huh? GO YOU. And I like Weight Watchers from what I've seen because of just that: what you should be eating, and (imo) more importantly, portion control.

And for the record? I lost 30 pounds from walking. Walking = TERRIFIC way to get your body feeling better. DON'T FORGET TO STRETCH!! (That's where those lean, sexy muscles come from.) I am so proud of you!!!

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bitchygrrl September 16 2008, 19:05:44 UTC
Ah ha Alton Brown is the culprit. Weight can be a really sensitive issue for some people and I totally get that. On the other hand people have to pause and ask wheter or not they are projecting.

My bones and joints are thanking me, trust. Especially my knees. Yes WW is a really good program. They tell you to forbid no foods, but learn portion control. They really emphasize that it's not a diet it's lifestyle change. It also helps that all the group leaders have done the program our leader is a doll. He's lost 50lbs and maintained it for 5 years. After you reach your goal with WW ( you set the goal with the help of your doctor or a BMI chart) you get to still attend the program free, so you always have people to support you. It's a good component IMO to help you maintain.

I am all about the walking. I love it. It feels so good to move. I do have to pay more attention to stretching I tend to want to skip it but I know I shouldn't. That's a good thing about the dvd's they do make you stretch.

Thanks so much for the cheers. Every bit helps. BTW your 30lbs loss is awesome. I applaud anybody who loses weight it is tough, and it takes commitment.

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ETA bitchygrrl September 16 2008, 20:21:50 UTC
Your point about access and ecomocis is a good one. In many urban areas there are more McDonald's than supermarkets. I know in my parents area I have seen that change over the years so much more fast food. Fortunately they still have nearby farmers markets. There are a lot of factors, but I think we all know that you love us and just want us to be healthy and live well. At least I know you meant that. *lol*

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Re: ETA stoney321 September 16 2008, 20:32:10 UTC
LOL! <3

And hey - I can hook a body up with how to grow your own foods, regardless of having land or just a porch (or maybe just a window box.) That was how I survived when I was dirt poor - I grew my own food.

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Re: ETA bitchygrrl September 16 2008, 20:34:22 UTC
Really? Dude that's super cool! You should teach that! I'm so serious so many people think it takes money to have good food to eat. What did you grow? *is curious*

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Re: ETA stoney321 September 16 2008, 20:42:41 UTC
I'll have to get a bunch of links together and I'll make a post about it.

I grew.... squash (yellow, zucchini), lettuce, spinach, tomatoes, bell peppers, rosemary, potatoes, basil.... Green beans. In three trash cans on my patio. :)

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Re: ETA bitchygrrl September 16 2008, 20:44:22 UTC
You rule. You should write a book. It would be like a useful version of The Broke Diaries

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