an "anonymous" poster
"there's a difference between abuse and rejection.
if someone has to get down to name-calling to get you out of their life,
it just means you're a self centered prick
who wouldn't listen to begin with"
-an anonymous response to my last entry
For the record: Anyone who wants me out of their life has only to say "Andrew, I want you out of my life". Plain English. You should try it some time... it's not as bad as it sounds.
I can recognize the difference between abuse and rejection. I've also learned to recognize a difference between personal truth and other people's opinions. Don't think I wrote that last post to say "woe is poor abused me". I'm not a victim here. I don't give a flying fuck about the specifics of the bullshit that was hurled at me, I simply note it as abusive behavior, which I don't A) condone or B) believe to be healthy. As to my being a self-centered prick who won't listen... Maybe in this fairytale world you've created, where trying to hurt a person by tearing at every scar and tender place you think you've evere seen is rejection and not abuse, that's true. You'll find it more difficult to find others to support that assertion out in the real world. Or maybe not... Maybe I'm just an arrogant, delusion, self-centered, self righteous, ignorant prick who doesn't know when to keep his Goddam mouth shut.
if someone has to get down to name-calling to get you out of their life,
it just means you're a self centered prick
who wouldn't listen to begin with"
-an anonymous response to my last entry
For the record: Anyone who wants me out of their life has only to say "Andrew, I want you out of my life". Plain English. You should try it some time... it's not as bad as it sounds.
I can recognize the difference between abuse and rejection. I've also learned to recognize a difference between personal truth and other people's opinions. Don't think I wrote that last post to say "woe is poor abused me". I'm not a victim here. I don't give a flying fuck about the specifics of the bullshit that was hurled at me, I simply note it as abusive behavior, which I don't A) condone or B) believe to be healthy. As to my being a self-centered prick who won't listen... Maybe in this fairytale world you've created, where trying to hurt a person by tearing at every scar and tender place you think you've evere seen is rejection and not abuse, that's true. You'll find it more difficult to find others to support that assertion out in the real world. Or maybe not... Maybe I'm just an arrogant, delusion, self-centered, self righteous, ignorant prick who doesn't know when to keep his Goddam mouth shut.