realization
have u ever noticed that when someone complains to you about their problems and you either give them validity or you dont? well that sorta is getting on my nerves recently, only b/c it depends how much you like them and how much you want them to like you. if you think about it, if i were to say right now, that i wanted to kill myself, most of you would prolly say, "shove it" or "no u wouldnt" only b/c u dont care if i like u or not. also it depends on how long u've known them. see i am also one of these people who judge ppl by their complaints. like if u told me one day (assuming i've known you for a long time, n we were really close) that you cut urself, depending on you, i might either say u just wanted it for attention or take it very seriously. i think that telling ppl that u dont beleive them creats a bigger problem. whether they want attention or not, stuff like that is still harming them right? so why cant ppl just shove it themselves and be supportive of their friends!!?!?! i mean im starting to realize the amount you could mean to anyone. what if ur friend doesnt have anyone else that would listen to them. i can say this b/c for a long time i had friends, but not friends that i could talk to realy things about. i had maybe one, and that, one, had no idea that everytime i tried to talk to her about things they made my problems feel stupid. its not fun to feel stupid and its not fun to have no friends. i really need to work on this shit.