so...tell me what you think

[stolendream]

The phrase "once a cheater, always a cheater"

Is it true or not?

and why do or don't you think so?

I just wanna see what everyone else thinks about this..

Comments

[katiebug200]

47

Yes, but how many times makes it habitual? More than once?

As I have stated before, I do not think that cheating is ever something that should happen in a committed relationship, but that every situation is different, as are the people involved.

I know this is a personal question... but who here has been cheated on? Just curious.

[stolendream]

not I, said the hen. lucky me! (knock on wood)

#49?

[katiebug200]

I mean can we make this like a marathon lj entry????

I have been cheated on.

Question is what is the definition of cheating? There is a gray area in that.

Re: #49?

[milf_03]

Sorry that is me forgot to log in

Re: #49?

[jdangerously]

Three.

three is a habit.

Once is a fluke

Twice is your last chance

Three is habitual

Re: #49?

[jdangerously]

Now, granted, that's in my opinion, every person is different, as well as the circumstance.

Re: #49?

[leedragon]

i disagree. this entry is probably not checked anymore, but once is a cheat. It's only not cheat"ing" because it's not plural. the one time can be forgiven, but only under certain circumstances (alcohol, drugs, life-or-death...) the second time and you're outta there, buddy.

I would hate myself even if i knew that i even seriously considered cheating.

Re: #49?

[jdangerously]

it does still get checked a lil, alcohol is no excuse for cheating, it's a self-induced state. And by drugs, only medical drugs can "possibly" be excused.

[katiebug200]

I have been cheated on as well.

[jdangerously]

me too, but the dude came to me and told me what what up. He had balls.

[katiebug200]

Sounds like it. That was very cool of him. Well, it would of been even cooler if he didn't cheat at all, but you know what I mean.