theres just so much more...

Feb 06, 2009 12:11


Love makes you do crazy things

I did a crazy thing.
twelve hundred dollars worth of crazy!
but its just money...

The reason girls plan out their wedding and hosue and childern's names is becasue they want and need security as a goal.

I am one fermily to belive that no one should "take care" and be completely dependant on the other person in the reslationship.
You gotta be able to stand on your own feet first and be secure inorder to be able to love and trust....don;t belive me?
Just look at Maslow's Hiarkey of needs!


Security comes first before Love.

To be in love you must be secure.
To be secure means you can trust.
Becasue without trust, there is no love.

A big thing I learned it to love wisely, with your friends and with realtionships.
I never knew what love was....i thought i did. I'm sure what i felt was a love, but not its true potential.

What i feel now is soooooo rediculously different, so ture and real, people call it butterflys but its becasue they don't understand.
A real love is honest, with understanding and communication between each other.
Its secure and safe, as well as scary. Youre scared to love so much becasue that's what your heart is saying to do.
To puts your self out there, vulnerable and honest with everything  you have is scary. But when they do the same in return its beautiful.

And thats where everything begins.

Its like you start from scratch almost. and work your way up together, as one.
As cheesey as that sounds its true.

I've never flet this way before...EVER.
I've never even been able to contimplate the thought.
not in my wildest dreams was i able to fathum a more attractive, smart, handsom, genuine,perfect man for me.
Its weird how things happen. Everything happens for a reason.

My Boyfriend's name is Robbie. and he's the shit.



Yeah....thats him.

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