What makes me happy.

Jan 06, 2006 23:21

It's funny...I'm more open and honest, with people I dont really know that well, than with the people I do. Ive learned something from this.

A while ago someone asked me to name ten things I knew for sure. Honestly I really am searching for how all the pieces of who I am really fit together.

I had a thought tonight, while I was sitting in Mcdonalds with my dad, at 11 PM, that a healthy relationship is one where you want to make that person a part of your whole life. Not necesarily make them who you are, but a part of who you are. One where two people are comfortable being completely honest with the other person, about all of who they are, not just this aspect or that aspect, and say "I know you, and you are perfectly OK and beautiful to me." Not to say that that person has to like absolutely everything, ive found this is impossible, but it is the people we love that teach us this.

[Add] The people we love are not the people we want to change for, but the people we want to be ourselves for.

I cant comfortably label myself, but I know one thing. Love isnt about gender, thats something I cant take back.
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