You know they say that for women sex=love and for men sex=whatever and yeah those are huge stereotypes and crap, but when you look at men in general there's a slight truth to it.
Men are taught from a very young age that sex is KEY important and they're already dealing with weird feelings towards girls anyway so what a better platform to start off with than another guy. Not that it's a conscience thing -some people are just drawn to one another-, or that it's a permanent thing, but it is most definitely a thing.
Jacob is brilliant (we know) and he wrote ".because none of them were conventionally sexual, or capable at this time of having feelings they would call romantic, because boys, to put it simply, were pretty weird and sometimes it would happen that a couple of boys, non-gay boys even, scared of the world or of girls or sex or whatever, that they would just get stuck looking right into each other’s eyes and caught there forever, making each other strong and useless and scary."
and that's kind of what I mean, there's a connection, and I don't know if it's the sexual acknowledgement of that connection that makes you gay in a cultural sense, or if that just has to do with "people".
Men are taught from a very young age that sex is KEY important and they're already dealing with weird feelings towards girls anyway so what a better platform to start off with than another guy. Not that it's a conscience thing -some people are just drawn to one another-, or that it's a permanent thing, but it is most definitely a thing.
Jacob is brilliant (we know) and he wrote ".because none of them were conventionally sexual, or capable at this time of having feelings they would call romantic, because boys, to put it simply, were pretty weird and sometimes it would happen that a couple of boys, non-gay boys even, scared of the world or of girls or sex or whatever, that they would just get stuck looking right into each other’s eyes and caught there forever, making each other strong and useless and scary."
and that's kind of what I mean, there's a connection, and I don't know if it's the sexual acknowledgement of that connection that makes you gay in a cultural sense, or if that just has to do with "people".
/end weird comment!
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