ARG!
Some people can be soooo rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! you help them you talk to them and ya know when you have something you want to talk about ya get pushed back a bit. You try to help motivate and it turns into someones annoyance. You try to build them up and ya know what? They pull their own base out from under them. I have tried my whole life helping other people caring about others and end up spending more time alone. My wife is wonderful and she does try to understand me completely but there are other aspects of my life that she does not understand. I feel my other life disappearing and I miss it.