There are many times in everyones life when the only adjective one can use to describe it is hard. Unfortunately I'm going through one of these rough patches now
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There are some things that we can't make happen, so you shouldn't stress out over them. That's the part you forgot. The next sentence isn't true.... "seizing the day" doesn't necessarily have anything to do with unrealistic dreams. It means making the best of what you have.
Also, remember that fate is bullshit. You're doing the same thing I used to do--thinking that the end with one person is the end of the world. That that person is "perfect" for you or something. You KNOW that's bullshit. There are millions of other women in Detroit alone--move on. If it really was meant to be it will happen again of its own accord, if not, you'll eventually move on and find happiness elsewhere.
As I was telling TJ recently, I think I could seriously be single for the rest of my life and still be happy. The reason that's especially easy to say is that I know I won't be. However, I'll be fine that way because I'm fine now. Until you get to this point in which you realize you don't need someone else to define your life or make you happy (especially with all the friends you have), you're probably never going to be truly content again.
The "only person who can make you feel better" is not that at all. If it's who I think it is, she's only that because you're calling her that in your head. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Remember, you can be a romantic without being hopeless. You probably agree that Jesse self-inflicts most of his misery. How is this not a similar case?
Also, remember that fate is bullshit. You're doing the same thing I used to do--thinking that the end with one person is the end of the world. That that person is "perfect" for you or something. You KNOW that's bullshit. There are millions of other women in Detroit alone--move on. If it really was meant to be it will happen again of its own accord, if not, you'll eventually move on and find happiness elsewhere.
As I was telling TJ recently, I think I could seriously be single for the rest of my life and still be happy. The reason that's especially easy to say is that I know I won't be. However, I'll be fine that way because I'm fine now. Until you get to this point in which you realize you don't need someone else to define your life or make you happy (especially with all the friends you have), you're probably never going to be truly content again.
The "only person who can make you feel better" is not that at all. If it's who I think it is, she's only that because you're calling her that in your head. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Remember, you can be a romantic without being hopeless. You probably agree that Jesse self-inflicts most of his misery. How is this not a similar case?
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