Please let it be my mind and not my gut...
I know you're supposed to really pay attention to your gut feelings/instincts, but what if you can't determine if it's ur gut or ur mind? I HATE that something clouds my mind so much to the point of being skeptical of everything certain people do or say. Why the fuck is this still bothering me?! Well, I know that people don't get over it in a
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the only thing i can offer is what i'm trying to do myself: take it for what it is and see what it becomes. think of it as going through a big, dark, scary cave, as relationships can be quite unpredictable, the only way you're going to find your way through that cave is to take your flashlight and see where it leads you. some scary shit may happen along the way, but that's part of the fun. in order to become better people, we must put our ass on the line and grow with people. if we knew EXACTLY where we were going through the cave of romance all the time, we'd miss out on the ADVENTURE. why do you think the GOONIES was so damn good?
most of all, don't let someone else gauge your self worth. you said it yourself: you love the way you are. regardless of what happens with this mystery man, know that you are a wonderful, talented person.
everything happens for a reason. we grow from every experience. are past makes us who we are, but our future is dependent on ourselves.
now, as the little kid in love actually once said, "let's go get the shit kicked out of us by love."
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first are is "our"
i guess i was feeling like a pirate. i don't know.
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Much love!
~Steph~
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