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So, I should be writing a paper right now, but I need some honest opinions so PLEASE PLEASE tell me what you think...
My friend Jenna is mad at me. Here is the story: She turned 21 and rented out a bar, I am not 21 and have an out of state ID which looks suspicious here, even though I get in pretty much everywhere except Joey's which wont take out of state at the front, but that's not the point... The thing is I told her that Nick would be coming here for a couple of days because this is the last time that I'm going to see him until like May-June. IF I can get to AL, which isn't certain, and then who knows how long I could stay. So there is a chance that I might not get to see him for a very long time. Plus we've been doing the long distance thing since the summer, so it's not like I get to see him very often. Plus I won't really be able to talk to him for 2 months because of his officer training school. She knew he would be here. She planned her party for the last night he was here. At a bar. And neither of us are 21. I may have an ID, but he doesn't. Also, he's in a very exclusive naval officers program and if he gets caught drinking underage then he gets kicked out, and loses going to school FOR FREE, not a GI Bill, FOR FREE. At a really good school, so we're talking like 80,000. Now I'm not going to ask him to fuck that up so he could come with me. And I'm not going to go out and pay to get into quite a bit to get into a bar, and feel like I have to stay to get my moneys worth hanging out with a bunch of people that I don't really know, because I'm not friends with her friends, while my boyfriend sits at home on our last night together for a while. So I didn't go. And I told her before hand that I wouldn't be able to go. Now she is freaking out and harassing me by text saying that I'm a bad friend, and that I should have told her that I wasn't going and that I should apologize for not being there and all this really mean stuff. Also, our friend Kate didn't go, for the very same reason (well close, her boyfriend is studying abroad in Italy for 5 months, but similar) and Jenna hasn't said one thing about her not being there.
I've held my tongue and not said anything to make it worse, but I need an opinion, should I apologize, or is she being a spoiled brat?
please help.
My friend Jenna is mad at me. Here is the story: She turned 21 and rented out a bar, I am not 21 and have an out of state ID which looks suspicious here, even though I get in pretty much everywhere except Joey's which wont take out of state at the front, but that's not the point... The thing is I told her that Nick would be coming here for a couple of days because this is the last time that I'm going to see him until like May-June. IF I can get to AL, which isn't certain, and then who knows how long I could stay. So there is a chance that I might not get to see him for a very long time. Plus we've been doing the long distance thing since the summer, so it's not like I get to see him very often. Plus I won't really be able to talk to him for 2 months because of his officer training school. She knew he would be here. She planned her party for the last night he was here. At a bar. And neither of us are 21. I may have an ID, but he doesn't. Also, he's in a very exclusive naval officers program and if he gets caught drinking underage then he gets kicked out, and loses going to school FOR FREE, not a GI Bill, FOR FREE. At a really good school, so we're talking like 80,000. Now I'm not going to ask him to fuck that up so he could come with me. And I'm not going to go out and pay to get into quite a bit to get into a bar, and feel like I have to stay to get my moneys worth hanging out with a bunch of people that I don't really know, because I'm not friends with her friends, while my boyfriend sits at home on our last night together for a while. So I didn't go. And I told her before hand that I wouldn't be able to go. Now she is freaking out and harassing me by text saying that I'm a bad friend, and that I should have told her that I wasn't going and that I should apologize for not being there and all this really mean stuff. Also, our friend Kate didn't go, for the very same reason (well close, her boyfriend is studying abroad in Italy for 5 months, but similar) and Jenna hasn't said one thing about her not being there.
I've held my tongue and not said anything to make it worse, but I need an opinion, should I apologize, or is she being a spoiled brat?
please help.