Relationship update
It seems the last couple entries between my girlfriend and I caught the attention of some of my friends. As always, I do appreciate any comments and feedback. It's always comforting to know that there are people in my life who genuinely care about my well-being and are still willing to be supportive of what might seem to be a very challenging relationship from an outsiders perspective.
Natalie and I had a much needed heart to heart today that I think was really constructive for both of us. Let's face it, I'm not used to having a possesive girlfriend. Of the handful of women I've been in relationships with two of them cheated on me and the other two were hardly even there for me.
But at the same time Natalie and I agreed that we have to find a middle ground between her possesiveness and my time management. That's what part of being a couple, or a "team" as I like to put it, is all about. And I don't doubt that there will be bumps in the relationship. But I wasn't looking for a one time fling or a flavor of the month when I got involved with her and I intend to see how far this relationship can really go.
And on a sidenote to Totchiko, I read your comments and can only say that I hope everything's going cool for you and your boy. We've been out of touch for so long that I'm not really aware of what's been going on in your life. Just know that I miss you and hope you two are doing well. I look forward to seeing you when you come back to the States although I'm sure you love being in Japan.
Ok, bed time for me.
Natalie and I had a much needed heart to heart today that I think was really constructive for both of us. Let's face it, I'm not used to having a possesive girlfriend. Of the handful of women I've been in relationships with two of them cheated on me and the other two were hardly even there for me.
But at the same time Natalie and I agreed that we have to find a middle ground between her possesiveness and my time management. That's what part of being a couple, or a "team" as I like to put it, is all about. And I don't doubt that there will be bumps in the relationship. But I wasn't looking for a one time fling or a flavor of the month when I got involved with her and I intend to see how far this relationship can really go.
And on a sidenote to Totchiko, I read your comments and can only say that I hope everything's going cool for you and your boy. We've been out of touch for so long that I'm not really aware of what's been going on in your life. Just know that I miss you and hope you two are doing well. I look forward to seeing you when you come back to the States although I'm sure you love being in Japan.
Ok, bed time for me.