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I'm praying for me and my friend right now because we're in the same situation yet different. it has to do with love and trying to fall out of loving someone that you should not love and I don't know how to stop loving someone that I shouldn't love and I don't know how to help her to stop loving someone that she's loved for years that treats her wrong and the truth is I can't help her. I can't help myself right now. my situation is killing me every single day, her situation is abusive. I do know though that I have to help myself before I can help anybody else and if somebody doesn't want help all I can do is give them the advice and go on about my life. I'm a good hearted person and I really care about the people around me but I care about myself first. and sometimes I know it's easier to focus on someone else's problems than my own but even when you have good advice and they don't or can't make themselves even remotely think of the possibility of leaving that person in their heart I know I have to leave it up to them to figure out what to do even though it hurts me and everybody around her to watch her go through this. all I can do is be her friend and give her advice and if it gets too much for me, i will separate myself from the situation to protect myself. she's a strong woman but this situation has been going on for too long and I feel helpless as her friend but then again it's not my problem and I will never be in a situation like that.but also I need to fall out of love with the people that I love that I can't be with forever. because I don't want to be in her situation I don't want to ever be in love with someone that will hurt me like what her man is doing to her so I should stay single until I find the right person to be with. So it won't hurt me. I feel helpless every day just dealing with my own situation. my own love situation is killing me and my heart. the people that are hurting me the most is the people that will refuse to help themselves and that's just about everybody in my life except myself