i may have finally discovered the answer to the question of why i've been single for three and a half years. besides the fact that i go for the wrong guys sometimes
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this is true for people who follow standard social things. You do not, find someone similar to you. in the end we are all looking for a balance, which is why the whole sub/dom stuff happens.
for me i look for someone who likes both roles. someone who can take charge when needed and let others do their thing as well.
essentially what i'm saying is there are people who fit the mold we are suppose to conform to by social norms, and then there are others like me you and ammre who divert from this mold.
I have been single for the past 1.5 years or so because all the people i dated just didn't interest me more than that. about a month ago i found someone who i really work well with and see eye to eye, which is something i've never had before.
I think maybe you'll come around and want children later in life, but it seems to be an ever growing trend these days with people i talk to, they have no interest in having kids. I don't get it. but i'm not them.
essentially put yourself out there, get out of the house, go on dating sites, whatever you do to meet people. dont' go on 'dates' that just adds extra pressure and makes people feel uncomfortable.
very interesting post by the way. more people should talk about this stuff openly. I could really go on a lot about this topic along with how most people just wanna hook up and not have a real relationship anymore.
for me i look for someone who likes both roles. someone who can take charge when needed and let others do their thing as well.
essentially what i'm saying is there are people who fit the mold we are suppose to conform to by social norms, and then there are others like me you and ammre who divert from this mold.
I have been single for the past 1.5 years or so because all the people i dated just didn't interest me more than that. about a month ago i found someone who i really work well with and see eye to eye, which is something i've never had before.
I think maybe you'll come around and want children later in life, but it seems to be an ever growing trend these days with people i talk to, they have no interest in having kids. I don't get it. but i'm not them.
essentially put yourself out there, get out of the house, go on dating sites, whatever you do to meet people. dont' go on 'dates' that just adds extra pressure and makes people feel uncomfortable.
very interesting post by the way. more people should talk about this stuff openly. I could really go on a lot about this topic along with how most people just wanna hook up and not have a real relationship anymore.
-Zack D
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