I haven't been feeling so hot lately

Oct 10, 2005 00:15

I've become more and more introverted lately. I don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. Perhaps a sign of maturity. I can just sit for hours at a time and do nothing and entertain myself. Even though I'm really ADD sometimes, and when I'm sitting there I can be ADD just in my head. I think way too much. Have you ever had that feeling? That you overanalyze everything but then tell yourself to stop overanalyzing but then you think your under-analyzing so you analyze again.

To quote Mrs. White "I'm borderline ranting right now." So please stop reading.

So I'd like to hear some responses on the topic of "wearing the pants" in a relationship.
Is this something normally done by a girl? or a guy? or both? or no one when its going good? (had to)
When a guy "wears the pants" no one points it out with a negative connotation, its simply something expected. But when a girl wears the pants, she gets heckled about it. The guys friends don't let him forget it, and thus he does not let her forget it, and thus she doesn't feel so hot. What does it matter? In a relationship people are supposed to do things for one another, kind of mutual. But for some reason if a guy submits to a girls request then she wears the pants.

I don't know, I don't care, I do what I do cause it makes me happy and hopefully it makes you happy too. I "tolerate" things to make you happy and you do the same for me. But i will still stand by my previous statement, if you don't want to do something and the only reason you're doing it is because of me then don't do it!@!

You can have him back davie.
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