Andrew
SSo I've gone on three dares with Andrew, for somone who never dates that's pretty huge.
We've been averaging about once a week since we met. We met on okcupid, non-monogoumus with a girlfriend, kinky and on the dom side (hallelujah) we talked about books a bit asked me if I wanted to meet and we set up a Starbucks date.
The date was 8pm, we got cofee talked and hung out he reminds me a lot of John, the same mannerisms and expressions, he's into drama loves xkcd ect, John of course takes it as a sign that he's amazing, Steve doesn't get why it weirds me out but it did. Other then that though, he's funny he makes me laugh and we've seen a lot of the same things, we finally said goodbye at 10 when they where closing up, I decided I liked him but wasn't sure on chemistry since we didn't kiss or anything.
I went to Adams after, I basicly jumped him, he asked if i was okay and what got into me, I didn't tell him I had been on a date I just made some joke about how his new bed got me going. We've only hung out once since, I cleaned and organized his room. Even as I did It I knew it was kind of an apology "sorry I don't love you, but hey your room is vacuumed". That is a whole other story and it's not a fun one so I'm going to skip it. Anyway, we weren't really anything, but it's done.
Back to Andrew!
Second date, Atlas Pub, met at 9:45, he walked in wearing a leather jacket and like a flip had been switched I realized "shit he looks like Brandon", not a bad thing necessarily but still, goddamnit.
So we had a couple drinks, turns out he had a rough week, asked why, him and his girlfriend broke up, Oooh well that's somewhat awkward but whatever, so we joked around were obnoxiously loud, chatted with the bartender and just had a good time, got kicked out at midnight cause the bartender was leaving early and we were the only ones left, so we stood in the parking lot and talked. I leaned against my car and we kept talking, we watched as some people tried to get in and got refused, and said goodbye to the bartender as she left. So finally during a lull in the conversation I said "so yea" and kissed him, he kissed me back and it was good, I joked after about how I'm awkward and he assured me it was great. So we made out a bit more, good kisser and tangled his hands in my hair and tugged, even bit my neck, aggressive and so fucking hot. He was fairly respectful no groping or anything, but still such potential. Eventually after more talking and kissing we parted ways. He texted me a bit later saying "hey we should make out more" I wholeheartedly agreed.
We texted a bit after, he asked me how the show I went to was and sent me a picture of the haircut he got (I had told him he needed one" and just stupid things we had talked about. Keeping in touch without getting crazy intense.
Anyway a few days later I asked him when he wanted to hang out again we decided on the next day (wednsday) after I got off work, I also mentioned I had the house free on Saturday if he wanted to come over but sadly he couldn't, I also realized I had been the one to initiate pretty much all of out plans and told him that he's kinda making me initiate everything and we had a bit of a discussion about that, I mentioned that after a certain point it will just seem like he's disinterested, and he assured me he's not and explained some of the stuff going on with him, I told him it was fine and I just don't want to be coy or play games at all and he agreed, actully he was awesome about the whole thing which was great. Of course the next day I realized we gad never decided what we were going to do, I texted him and he was like "yea I just got on break an was about to text you the same thing" we made plans to go see BirdMan at 9:55, I ran home because I had time for a shower and I decided I'd wear a dress and tights instead of the pants I had planned.
Stopped at the dollar store got candy and made it there just in time. He got us a popcorn to share so I grabbed us a drink to share, the movie was amazing, there where only two other people there and we hushedly dicussed the movie, he's into cinematography and actully made me pay attention to some things would've missed, amazing movie anyway, phenomenal acting and just all types of strange.
Anyway afterwards we just sort of drifted towards my car and I asked if he wanted to go home or to get the milkshake I had promised ( a co-worker had made fun of me for going on dates where we drink different things, coffee, then booze, and I joked that milkshakes where next, I told Andrew and he thought it was funny and wanted to get milkshakes)
He said "yea do you want to" and I said
"Yea I want to keep talking to you let go to Denny's since it's the only thing open"
So we went got pancakes,bacon and a milkshake for him, it was awesome, we were there for like 2 hours, just really comfortable, we talked he let me interrogate him on his life, finally like an hour after the check was paid we left. In the car I kissed him, after pulling away he said "I was going to wait till the movie parking lot to do that" I said "yea I just wanted to" he kissed me an pulled my hair, I broke it off and started driving back to the movies where he had left his car, the whole ride he was tugging my hair and scratching my neck, I was trying so hard to focus on driving but it was incredibly difficult, I kept letting out tiny moans and squeaks.
He said to tell him to stop if I wanted and I finally had to because I was legit scared I would crash.
Back to the parking lot we didn't even pretend he was leaving, I shut off the engine and we leaned the seats back and talked and made out, it was great.
We talked about rent and aids and ww2, and concentration camps and just had great conversation in between hard core making out.
He choked me a bit, as he put pressure on my throat he said, "tap my shoulder, if it's too much and I'll stop" which as somone consent oriented is really fucking hot, he was nervouse about getting caught/doing things in public, but there was no really better option so we worked with what we had he let me put my hand down his pants but he was way to nervouse to enjoy it, I told him if he was less worried I wouldve made it worth his while and he just kind of groaned, anyway I (half) joked I at least had to check out the goods before commiting to anything.
Of course things heated up more and somehow an less than hour later he ended up fingering me, I mentioned the double standard and he said "the windows are too fogged to see in anyway, if you want me to stop tell me to stop"
I didn't
I should be embarrassed how submissive I got with him so quickly but i was into it and we talked a bit about consent and are definitly on the same page, plus he's really good at it.
I doubt I'm at his level which is lovely because usually I'm trying to convince nice boys that you can please bite my harder, no really it doesn't hurt, no unless you taste blood you haven't gone too far.
He was pleased he marked me, he enjoyed the red scratches on my skin and soda sorry while smiling like he was so pleased with himself.
I actully had to tap out when he was choking me at one point, he was overwhelming and absurdly hot in the car, I don't even know if I'll be able to handle him where he has space to maneuver.
Eventually after two hours in the car we really had to go, we somehow untangled, by that time shoes where off there was a blanket I was a hot mess.
I texted him this morning about Terry Pratchett dying and we talked a bit about euthanasia, then joked about me eating the popcorn he left in the car, he actully asked when I wanted to hang out this week, and we have definite plans for Thursday. Or at least were going to see each other, no clue on what were doing, I think I might have to bite the bullet and gave him come to my house, which mean introducing him to my dad,hich means lots of awkwardness, but maybe it'll be worth it.
So I am excited by him, more than I probably should be for a casual relationship but I'm never excited about anyone so I'm going with it.
Only a few red flags.
One he lives at home with his parents, which is hypocritical of me to say, but really the concern is that they are catholic and really strict, like angry when he gets home too late and crap like that.
Second he's four years younger than me, he just turned 22 in January. He's not immature seeming but it could be a concern if we hang out more
Third, I think he's pretty broke, which really I don't mind becuase I'm doing okay and I don't mind going Dutch but after Brandon it makes me worry, like I don't want to end up never going anywhere with him cause of money, that being said he didn't actully complain about the cost of anything except drinks the second date (and to be fair drinks are a rip off) so thats a minor one,
We've been averaging about once a week since we met. We met on okcupid, non-monogoumus with a girlfriend, kinky and on the dom side (hallelujah) we talked about books a bit asked me if I wanted to meet and we set up a Starbucks date.
The date was 8pm, we got cofee talked and hung out he reminds me a lot of John, the same mannerisms and expressions, he's into drama loves xkcd ect, John of course takes it as a sign that he's amazing, Steve doesn't get why it weirds me out but it did. Other then that though, he's funny he makes me laugh and we've seen a lot of the same things, we finally said goodbye at 10 when they where closing up, I decided I liked him but wasn't sure on chemistry since we didn't kiss or anything.
I went to Adams after, I basicly jumped him, he asked if i was okay and what got into me, I didn't tell him I had been on a date I just made some joke about how his new bed got me going. We've only hung out once since, I cleaned and organized his room. Even as I did It I knew it was kind of an apology "sorry I don't love you, but hey your room is vacuumed". That is a whole other story and it's not a fun one so I'm going to skip it. Anyway, we weren't really anything, but it's done.
Back to Andrew!
Second date, Atlas Pub, met at 9:45, he walked in wearing a leather jacket and like a flip had been switched I realized "shit he looks like Brandon", not a bad thing necessarily but still, goddamnit.
So we had a couple drinks, turns out he had a rough week, asked why, him and his girlfriend broke up, Oooh well that's somewhat awkward but whatever, so we joked around were obnoxiously loud, chatted with the bartender and just had a good time, got kicked out at midnight cause the bartender was leaving early and we were the only ones left, so we stood in the parking lot and talked. I leaned against my car and we kept talking, we watched as some people tried to get in and got refused, and said goodbye to the bartender as she left. So finally during a lull in the conversation I said "so yea" and kissed him, he kissed me back and it was good, I joked after about how I'm awkward and he assured me it was great. So we made out a bit more, good kisser and tangled his hands in my hair and tugged, even bit my neck, aggressive and so fucking hot. He was fairly respectful no groping or anything, but still such potential. Eventually after more talking and kissing we parted ways. He texted me a bit later saying "hey we should make out more" I wholeheartedly agreed.
We texted a bit after, he asked me how the show I went to was and sent me a picture of the haircut he got (I had told him he needed one" and just stupid things we had talked about. Keeping in touch without getting crazy intense.
Anyway a few days later I asked him when he wanted to hang out again we decided on the next day (wednsday) after I got off work, I also mentioned I had the house free on Saturday if he wanted to come over but sadly he couldn't, I also realized I had been the one to initiate pretty much all of out plans and told him that he's kinda making me initiate everything and we had a bit of a discussion about that, I mentioned that after a certain point it will just seem like he's disinterested, and he assured me he's not and explained some of the stuff going on with him, I told him it was fine and I just don't want to be coy or play games at all and he agreed, actully he was awesome about the whole thing which was great. Of course the next day I realized we gad never decided what we were going to do, I texted him and he was like "yea I just got on break an was about to text you the same thing" we made plans to go see BirdMan at 9:55, I ran home because I had time for a shower and I decided I'd wear a dress and tights instead of the pants I had planned.
Stopped at the dollar store got candy and made it there just in time. He got us a popcorn to share so I grabbed us a drink to share, the movie was amazing, there where only two other people there and we hushedly dicussed the movie, he's into cinematography and actully made me pay attention to some things would've missed, amazing movie anyway, phenomenal acting and just all types of strange.
Anyway afterwards we just sort of drifted towards my car and I asked if he wanted to go home or to get the milkshake I had promised ( a co-worker had made fun of me for going on dates where we drink different things, coffee, then booze, and I joked that milkshakes where next, I told Andrew and he thought it was funny and wanted to get milkshakes)
He said "yea do you want to" and I said
"Yea I want to keep talking to you let go to Denny's since it's the only thing open"
So we went got pancakes,bacon and a milkshake for him, it was awesome, we were there for like 2 hours, just really comfortable, we talked he let me interrogate him on his life, finally like an hour after the check was paid we left. In the car I kissed him, after pulling away he said "I was going to wait till the movie parking lot to do that" I said "yea I just wanted to" he kissed me an pulled my hair, I broke it off and started driving back to the movies where he had left his car, the whole ride he was tugging my hair and scratching my neck, I was trying so hard to focus on driving but it was incredibly difficult, I kept letting out tiny moans and squeaks.
He said to tell him to stop if I wanted and I finally had to because I was legit scared I would crash.
Back to the parking lot we didn't even pretend he was leaving, I shut off the engine and we leaned the seats back and talked and made out, it was great.
We talked about rent and aids and ww2, and concentration camps and just had great conversation in between hard core making out.
He choked me a bit, as he put pressure on my throat he said, "tap my shoulder, if it's too much and I'll stop" which as somone consent oriented is really fucking hot, he was nervouse about getting caught/doing things in public, but there was no really better option so we worked with what we had he let me put my hand down his pants but he was way to nervouse to enjoy it, I told him if he was less worried I wouldve made it worth his while and he just kind of groaned, anyway I (half) joked I at least had to check out the goods before commiting to anything.
Of course things heated up more and somehow an less than hour later he ended up fingering me, I mentioned the double standard and he said "the windows are too fogged to see in anyway, if you want me to stop tell me to stop"
I didn't
I should be embarrassed how submissive I got with him so quickly but i was into it and we talked a bit about consent and are definitly on the same page, plus he's really good at it.
I doubt I'm at his level which is lovely because usually I'm trying to convince nice boys that you can please bite my harder, no really it doesn't hurt, no unless you taste blood you haven't gone too far.
He was pleased he marked me, he enjoyed the red scratches on my skin and soda sorry while smiling like he was so pleased with himself.
I actully had to tap out when he was choking me at one point, he was overwhelming and absurdly hot in the car, I don't even know if I'll be able to handle him where he has space to maneuver.
Eventually after two hours in the car we really had to go, we somehow untangled, by that time shoes where off there was a blanket I was a hot mess.
I texted him this morning about Terry Pratchett dying and we talked a bit about euthanasia, then joked about me eating the popcorn he left in the car, he actully asked when I wanted to hang out this week, and we have definite plans for Thursday. Or at least were going to see each other, no clue on what were doing, I think I might have to bite the bullet and gave him come to my house, which mean introducing him to my dad,hich means lots of awkwardness, but maybe it'll be worth it.
So I am excited by him, more than I probably should be for a casual relationship but I'm never excited about anyone so I'm going with it.
Only a few red flags.
One he lives at home with his parents, which is hypocritical of me to say, but really the concern is that they are catholic and really strict, like angry when he gets home too late and crap like that.
Second he's four years younger than me, he just turned 22 in January. He's not immature seeming but it could be a concern if we hang out more
Third, I think he's pretty broke, which really I don't mind becuase I'm doing okay and I don't mind going Dutch but after Brandon it makes me worry, like I don't want to end up never going anywhere with him cause of money, that being said he didn't actully complain about the cost of anything except drinks the second date (and to be fair drinks are a rip off) so thats a minor one,