shh... tell no one.
lalalalala, AIM wont let me on... *pouts*
is it wrong to believe that i have a right to be distant and let people think what they want, just because we are baisicly alone?
well, not completly alone, but if you try to contradict someone on their expectations or convinient recollections, you just end up more alone. which is why it's easier to be distant. I've learned that people generally dont care about your little blip of existance, or moreover, they want you to care about them so they can confirm their existance and avoid lonliness, the human condition.
so it's better to just help them kindly, rather than try to move them from thier firmly rooted argument. no one will believe you when you tell them they're wrong, so it's best just not to go there. i just tend to let people think what they want to, it stirs up less drama, but drama or no, people arent happy.
i think people love drama in their lives because it makes them feel like there's at least something thats centered around them, so they never truely feel lonely. because a person's main concern is themself. and maybe thats where love comes in. love is the ability to care for someone more than yourself, more than anyone or anything in this world. love can lift us past the human condition, the ones we love can correct our faults, just beacuse they care for us.
but in a world filled with break-ups, murder, arguments, drama, divorce and convinient recollections, who believes in love anymore?
So tell me this: are we alone or aren't we?
is it wrong to believe that i have a right to be distant and let people think what they want, just because we are baisicly alone?
well, not completly alone, but if you try to contradict someone on their expectations or convinient recollections, you just end up more alone. which is why it's easier to be distant. I've learned that people generally dont care about your little blip of existance, or moreover, they want you to care about them so they can confirm their existance and avoid lonliness, the human condition.
so it's better to just help them kindly, rather than try to move them from thier firmly rooted argument. no one will believe you when you tell them they're wrong, so it's best just not to go there. i just tend to let people think what they want to, it stirs up less drama, but drama or no, people arent happy.
i think people love drama in their lives because it makes them feel like there's at least something thats centered around them, so they never truely feel lonely. because a person's main concern is themself. and maybe thats where love comes in. love is the ability to care for someone more than yourself, more than anyone or anything in this world. love can lift us past the human condition, the ones we love can correct our faults, just beacuse they care for us.
but in a world filled with break-ups, murder, arguments, drama, divorce and convinient recollections, who believes in love anymore?
So tell me this: are we alone or aren't we?