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It's Sunday night and the questions of the week are in. They are as follows:
Why do men say they will call then dont?
and
Does commitment scare you?
Ladies and Gentlemen our answers so far:
JeTeRsUx18 (8:45:02 PM): Commitment is a nice thing to have, WHEN you have the right person to be committed to. But most people have been hurt by at least one person, so it puts that fear into everyone that they will be get hurt again. Which is why I think cheating plays a role in relationships. I think when a person goes out and cheats and gets away with it.. they have the other person fooled for a while thinking that they are in this serious relationship but they know they have fool control and think make themselves believe that they are not committed since they are seeing other people. So they have the commitment still, but they feel like they cant be hurt because they are the ones calling the shots so if something was to happen they have that kinda of brick wall up so that they are not fully hurt.so I dont think people are scarecd of committment, because who doesnt want to be loved? i think they are more scared of being hurt, which prevents them from wanting a committment
Star Fox TG23 (8:51:01 PM): uumm he's probably just pretendin to be interested or he's just scared to call you because he really likes you or he's a homo and can't admit it
lo0OBrAnDoNO0ol (8:12:21 PM): i say ill call to appease the girl
lo0OBrAnDoNO0ol (8:12:32 PM): i usually dont call because i dont like talking on the phone. facetoface is more of my thing
lo0OBrAnDoNO0ol (8:12:39 PM): and yes. commitment scares me
*what are your answer?
Why do men say they will call then dont?
and
Does commitment scare you?
Ladies and Gentlemen our answers so far:
JeTeRsUx18 (8:45:02 PM): Commitment is a nice thing to have, WHEN you have the right person to be committed to. But most people have been hurt by at least one person, so it puts that fear into everyone that they will be get hurt again. Which is why I think cheating plays a role in relationships. I think when a person goes out and cheats and gets away with it.. they have the other person fooled for a while thinking that they are in this serious relationship but they know they have fool control and think make themselves believe that they are not committed since they are seeing other people. So they have the commitment still, but they feel like they cant be hurt because they are the ones calling the shots so if something was to happen they have that kinda of brick wall up so that they are not fully hurt.so I dont think people are scarecd of committment, because who doesnt want to be loved? i think they are more scared of being hurt, which prevents them from wanting a committment
Star Fox TG23 (8:51:01 PM): uumm he's probably just pretendin to be interested or he's just scared to call you because he really likes you or he's a homo and can't admit it
lo0OBrAnDoNO0ol (8:12:21 PM): i say ill call to appease the girl
lo0OBrAnDoNO0ol (8:12:32 PM): i usually dont call because i dont like talking on the phone. facetoface is more of my thing
lo0OBrAnDoNO0ol (8:12:39 PM): and yes. commitment scares me
*what are your answer?