Sick to death of women who abuse the system
I couldn't sleep last night.
We're trying to get Gellar's son out here to spend his two weeks with us while Gellar is still in between his retirement and next job so he can spend all day with Sam. Sam's mom says, "I'm not comfortable putting him on an airplane."
Hm. Sam has flown to Hawaii, to the Carribean and all over the U.S. for vacations, but for him to fly here to visit his father for two weeks (as stated in the court papers that he is supposed to spend two weeks every summer with us) is "uncomfortable"?
Yet another instance that she sees fit to violate the custody papers and we can do nothing about it. God forbid we miss a child support payment and his salary is withheld (which has NEVER happend!), but she violates the COURT MANDATED DOCUMENTS and she gets away with it!
Sigh. Why do I get so worked up over it. He's not my kid. But, I hate that Gellar tries so hard to be a good dad to his son and she has consistently for the past 9 years violated those documents. And we can't do a damn thing. So many women out there are fighting the battle to try and get their child's father to visit and pay child support, etc. and here we are fighting to be a part of Sam's life.
I'm so close to dragging her ass to court for emotional damages because now, it's affecting me and i won't take it.
UPDATE: I spent the entire day being a lawyer, researching state law and developing the paperwork. I can see why lawyers charge per hour (although I still don't agree with it). Hours of research! I'm not miffed anymore. I'm determined.
We're trying to get Gellar's son out here to spend his two weeks with us while Gellar is still in between his retirement and next job so he can spend all day with Sam. Sam's mom says, "I'm not comfortable putting him on an airplane."
Hm. Sam has flown to Hawaii, to the Carribean and all over the U.S. for vacations, but for him to fly here to visit his father for two weeks (as stated in the court papers that he is supposed to spend two weeks every summer with us) is "uncomfortable"?
Yet another instance that she sees fit to violate the custody papers and we can do nothing about it. God forbid we miss a child support payment and his salary is withheld (which has NEVER happend!), but she violates the COURT MANDATED DOCUMENTS and she gets away with it!
Sigh. Why do I get so worked up over it. He's not my kid. But, I hate that Gellar tries so hard to be a good dad to his son and she has consistently for the past 9 years violated those documents. And we can't do a damn thing. So many women out there are fighting the battle to try and get their child's father to visit and pay child support, etc. and here we are fighting to be a part of Sam's life.
I'm so close to dragging her ass to court for emotional damages because now, it's affecting me and i won't take it.
UPDATE: I spent the entire day being a lawyer, researching state law and developing the paperwork. I can see why lawyers charge per hour (although I still don't agree with it). Hours of research! I'm not miffed anymore. I'm determined.