Cathrine-----"maturity from experience.. and experience from age" well thats not always true---- cuz theres plenty of ppl that have plenty of age and plenty of experience yet still lack maturity getting old is inevitable being mature is optional
and yes cathrine this "love" u speak of that we do agin and agin is infatuation---- cuz it dont last
and u say----"thats not selfish thats instict." ----- well our instincts are to be selfish--- when u really think about it--- almost everything we do is to benifit ourselves---- even if its not directly for us-- we do it for ourselves
Re: Perspective 3anana101089June 26 2005, 16:20:30 UTC
But i don't think that kids our age know what hardxcore love is
i think thats very right, we make think we "love" someone now...but give it a month and try to picture yourself living a happy life with out them....yea most of us will all be just fine....like people that get married to their highschool sweetheart, there is nothing wrong with that, but most of them dont stay together forever, they were under the impression they were "in love" for mayb the first 7 years they are together, but eventually liek most good things...it began to fade. my mom worries about me sometimes, because since i always get so much negative reactions and such from people, and other reasons i strive really hard for someone to love me, for me, and not for the wrong reasons......shes really worried i will find someone who will love me, for the moment and i wont think ahead to the future of where our relationship will go.......hmm none of that made any sense. good.
Re: Perspective 3anana101089June 27 2005, 04:00:08 UTC
awww i have accomplished something.
yea..u saw not too look for it...but i am like an anxious little kid in a game of hide and seek...i wanna be found....so i can sprint to base AND WIN!...but then i dont wanna be found cuz i know i wont make it.....
love can make people do crazy things, "love" at our age makes people do even crazier.
baylea that is quite peculiar that u jus talked on the phone about this---Yes i do value ur view(i value all views and i keep an open mind)
but i sed that kids our age only know infatuation-- because infatuation is temporary and conditional but love is eternal and unconditional
and i dint refer to all the things we give up(but nice of u to bring it up) and yes its not about equal giving--- its about equal sacrifice
but when u sed "I think as long as youre old enough to understand the basic meaning of love, you can love"--- i have to disagree---- for one thing the majority of us do not understand love but we think that we do-- we r ignorant to the things that make up true love---i for one know fo sho that i am not in love--- and i do not no whut love is-----but for another thing-- knowing of love is not enough-- especially if u only know the basic principles that comprise it-----like i no of war--- i no whut comprises war---- but at my age i do not have whut it takes to start a war--- or win a war
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getting old is inevitable
being mature is optional
and yes cathrine this "love" u speak of that we do agin and agin is infatuation---- cuz it dont last
and u say----"thats not selfish thats instict." ----- well our instincts are to be selfish--- when u really think about it--- almost everything we do is to benifit ourselves---- even if its not directly for us-- we do it for ourselves
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i think thats very right, we make think we "love" someone now...but give it a month and try to picture yourself living a happy life with out them....yea most of us will all be just fine....like people that get married to their highschool sweetheart, there is nothing wrong with that, but most of them dont stay together forever, they were under the impression they were "in love" for mayb the first 7 years they are together, but eventually liek most good things...it began to fade. my mom worries about me sometimes, because since i always get so much negative reactions and such from people, and other reasons i strive really hard for someone to love me, for me, and not for the wrong reasons......shes really worried i will find someone who will love me, for the moment and i wont think ahead to the future of where our relationship will go.......hmm none of that made any sense. good.
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that made sense actually anna
and dont go looking for love-- it will find u
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yea..u saw not too look for it...but i am like an anxious little kid in a game of hide and seek...i wanna be found....so i can sprint to base AND WIN!...but then i dont wanna be found cuz i know i wont make it.....
love can make people do crazy things, "love" at our age makes people do even crazier.
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but i sed that kids our age only know infatuation-- because infatuation is temporary and conditional but love is eternal and unconditional
and i dint refer to all the things we give up(but nice of u to bring it up)
and yes its not about equal giving--- its about equal sacrifice
but when u sed "I think as long as youre old enough to understand the basic meaning of love, you can love"--- i have to disagree---- for one thing the majority of us do not understand love but we think that we do-- we r ignorant to the things that make up true love---i for one know fo sho that i am not in love--- and i do not no whut love is-----but for another thing-- knowing of love is not enough-- especially if u only know the basic principles that comprise it-----like i no of war--- i no whut comprises war---- but at my age i do not have whut it takes to start a war--- or win a war
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