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Dec 03, 2009 00:39

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future husband, breakup

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peterose313 December 4 2009, 08:44:38 UTC
I have 1 issue with that. As part of a relationship, you cannot spend every waking minute with each other. You need your space and in all honesty school and friends come before a relationship. Without your friends, you are nothing and have no crutch for support when things go sour.

By you saying that, you make yourself out to seem clingy and demanding (no offense) and that drives a lot of guys away. Normal guys hate drama and high maintenance girls.

Again, no offense. I understand about the quality time but there should be somethin like a 50/50 or 60/40 split. You can't expect someone to basically eliminate their friends just to be with you.

Please don't take this the wrong way and get defensive about it. I'm not attacking you or anything. I'm just stating an opinion and am not trying to offend you in any way shape or form. If I do/did I apologize in advance because that is not what my intentions are.

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st4nl3y December 10 2009, 18:49:10 UTC
I have no idea what you're talking about. was it this: ??

"-He spends more quality time with me that any one of his friends."

Because i mean any "one" friend. not all of his friends, combined. Tyler had "guy's nights". PLENTY of them, trust me. He spent more time with one friend than he did with me, and that wasn't fair. I'm all about him having friends, If he doesn't then that's creepy. But when he hangs out with him every single night, and spends way more quality time with him than me, then that's not okay. Especially if they're oogling other women together.

So please read carefully before you criticize. thanks.

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peterose313 December 11 2009, 00:37:53 UTC
the way you worded that quote was misleading then. I interpreted it as any of his friends period. I didn't interpret it as 1 specific person.

I agree with your response above. The ooging other women together is not cool and uncalled for.

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st4nl3y December 14 2009, 01:09:48 UTC
ok. well we're still friends then :) lol

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peterose313 December 14 2009, 05:05:02 UTC
lol if that's what you want to call things...

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st4nl3y December 21 2009, 20:44:05 UTC
we're frienemies, then.

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